Advice for HatersSuckOTL

HatersSuckOTL : Okay...so I like my bestfriend but unfortunately, I dont think he likes me back (Do be honest,i feel all mushy right now xDD), how do I get him to notice/ask me out??

 

 

Hi :) Okay.. So you want your bestfriend to like you. I'm not really good at this but I tried to get attention from my crush before and it worked. Though he courted me, I never accepted him as a boyfriend because I only want him as a friend. Back to the main thing.

1st of all. ) Smile. The best way. Show your teeth and flip your hair. Of course it is kind of attracting especially if you look cool about it and doesn't let your nervous system devour you. Smiling means "hey you should like me because I'm confident about my look tall or short, dark skin or white, long hair or not.. I'm confident" 

2nd. ) Be comfortable around him. Okay since he's your bestfriend you are comfortable without him. What I mean is, be true to yourself.. Tell him more and more stories about your life and make him laugh his off. But don't talk to much because sometimes it annoys boys. 

3rd ) Hangout with him. He asks you to play video games? Go and play. He wants to ride a horse, go with him. Bowling? Yeah sure. But not on bad things. It isn't bad to say no sometimes. 

4th) Flirt. Yes he's your bestfriend but.. You can actually flirt with him (Muhahaha I'm evil) For example: Tell him "Hi cutie, you look so hot in that Shirt" then laugh. I don't know I got my crush's attention when I did this before. (YEAH I'm A BIG FLIRT xD)

5th) Let him no you are there for him. Be affectionate and help him on his problems.. Be his crying shoulder.

6th ) If you two became so open in relationships, give him a hint that you like him. Ex. "I like someone who's really close to me" and if he guessed wrong just smile at him or even wink.

7th ) If you see that he isn't interested.. Try to ignore him for some time and if he tries to talk to you again then there might be some feelings for you.

 

You know,  if this doesn't work out.. it's okay. Smile and accept it. Maybe some other time or season, he'll like you. :) Or maybe in a turn there's someone better. But if this works.. Then TADA! You got yourself a lovelife :">

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princess_kim
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I HAVE ANOTHER QUESTION!! I WANT THE SAME TREATMENT AS LAST TIME xDDDDD


Would you guys please start a support group for me?? I need it right now.. Let's just say I'm going through a road thats not so smooth T__T I'd really appreciate it if you guys made it clear your here for me^^