I JUST WANT A BOYFRIEND

Almost half of my class is taken. Ok, I might be overreacting but people surrounding me are mostly not single! I am sooooo jealous. Now I don't wanna sound desperate or anything, but I AM DESPERATE. 

I want a boyfriend.

And it's been a while since I've fallen in love... 2 years? I don't know. IT'S TIME! And srsly, like srsly, I need/want a boyfriend. HAHAHAHAHAHA Maybe valentines day is just pressuring me or whatever but just look at twitter. All of the tweets of quote pages are about relationships and goals and sweet things. I mean, I wanna experience that before I graduate highschool! And when do I graduate? March 25! But whatever I'm only 16 there's a lot of time for that.

BUT STILL.

I want someone to cuddle with, to kiss (teehee to that mrfckrs), to text me "Good morning, baby", to call me and do things that couples do! T_____T WHEEEEN?

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thecafewriter
#1
Darling, I am twenty years old & I am just now having my first boyfriend. I used to feel like you, too, when I was 16, thinking "when is it going to be my turn to have a boyfriend??? I am so ready, when is someone going to date me???" But when I look back at myself at that age, I realize that I honestly just really wasn't ready. I still had so many issues that needed to be fixed and I wasn't confident in myself and I had too many other things to be more worried about. I was incredibly insecure, I was overweight, I had college applications and my grades needed my attention and my family was having issues. A boyfriend would have been just another thing to worry about. Plus there was no boy in my life at that time that would have been right for me. Sure, there were cute guys and I had crushes, but when I think about them now, they would have been all wrong for me. I get your frustration, I had it, too; the constantly wondering when it's going to happen for you, what it's going to feel like, all the goals you have for your relationship when you get one, how much happier you (think you) will be. But take my advice as someone who has been in your shoes: it's okay to be anxious and curious about it, it's okay to wonder and keep your eyes open, and you'll feel frustrated sometimes, too. But maybe it is really just not the right time. Maybe you have some growing to do or your focus needs to be somewhere else first. But maybe, there's also one particularly special person in your future who is also frustrated and anxious to meet you, who also needs to grow and take care of a few things before you're both ready to be together. And when that does happen, take your time with it. Let things happen naturally and wait for the feelings to come on their own. If it's special, it's worth waiting another three or four years for. Good luck, and happy valentine's day!
rainbowthings
#2
Dear, there's always a right time for that thing. Maybe god has other plans for you. ^^ haha. I sounds like a mother. Omg. But still, boyfriends are best to have when you're in your 20's. I'm 18 and I'm NBSB. HAHAHA. I'm gonna die !
ParkJimins_TinyWifey #3
It's been 3 or four years since ive been in the dating game and no guys barely look at me anymore...I must be too ugly or something HAHAHAHAHAH XD
ParkJimins_TinyWifey #4
I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!!! /ForeverAlone :( *hugs you*