people can be so judgmental at times.

i know, i'm a hypocrite. a judgemental person is talking about hating judgmental people. sorry, my vocab's pretty much average at times.  yesterday, we went to the memorial garden as a whole family. my cousins were playing at the vacant wide lawn (meaning there's no one buried 6 ft under there yet) then i heard few minutes later that there was a gay creature who talked bad about them...

people can be such gossipers. can't they mind their own business? 

wow... look who's talking, right? i know. i know. 

and i'm thankful at the least bit, for other judgmental, gossipers out there. you made me realize not to make sudden conclusions about other people. that there will always be differentials as we would say in medicine. that unless you've got at least 90% of the facts straight, then can you say that this is this or whatevs. ¬_¬ 

and not go... "wow, these people are such feeler! talking in english"

(translated version already. and note, the tone is that of bystanders who gossip sort of can't explain...annoying..? oh and 'feeler' meant something like, why the heck are they talking in english like natives or something they don't even look american.) 

oh my god! my cousins are ACTUAL FIL-AMs! and WTF! you ignoramous can't tell if the accent is authentic or not. F---! lemme hear you say something in straight english without popping a vein or getting a nosebleed. 

"oh, i thought they were chinese."

holy mother of chocolates!?! my cousins are (not to be racist or offending) black. they're asian/Filipino black and they've got in' average-to-big eyes, like most filipinos do. i'll be sprouting wonderful curses. lucky this female wannabe that i wasnt there, else, i'll be a courteous and correct him/her about his/her backbites. srsly, even though this happened yesterday i feel pissed off that he/she was being an amateur back bitter or rather, a poor critique.

"and look at this one (referring to my other cousin who is a dialect speaker like me, carrying our youngest FilAm cousin) still so young and already has a child?!" 

OKAY~! srsly. can't anyone think in these situations....

1. wow, their accent's really good. they must really be FilAms and you can add in a rude way if you like (but they look so native. sorry i dunno how to translate bisdak and add sniggering if you want)

2. maybe they could be half-half or just grew up there.

3. maybe the kid is just her brother or cousin

WHY COULDNT HE THINK OF THOSE SEEMINGLY LESS HURTFUL AND DANGEROUS FOR HIM?! BEFORE ASSUMING OF THE THINGS HE JUST LET LOOSE FROM THAT FOUL, UGLY MOUTH OF HIS!

srsly, he makes me realize again, no matter what race or color or wherever you are... people are people. remember, if you talk ill and think ill about others don't forget you're not perfect.

*SIGH* gonna go back to Legend of Korra marathon. which i just started this afternoon and gonna be ending book 1 any minute now. :)