http://www.soompi.com/news/2ams-jo-kwon-im-a-guy-too

and my annoyance explodes -.-

why is it that that is always the thing that people care the most- whether a celebrity is gay or not? when ever you go on Youtube where there's a boy or girl that isn't "normal" there will ALWAYS be at least one comment talking about said celebrities ual preference.

those who know me know how offensive I find this.

Don't get me wrong, it's not because I hate gay people, it's simply because I don't think it's any of our freaking business.

to me, the way you act shouldn't be an indication of whether you are gay or not- I mean, I've acted like a "dyke" my entire life according to alot of people but I'm very much into guys, I might be "boyish" but that doesn't make me any less of a girl.

and really. even if I were into a girl it doesn't make me any less of a girl either, and that goes for guys too!

there is no "right" way to be a girl or boy- in our society we're told to be our selves but when our selves is not what fits the norm we're criticized and told we're "doing it wrong"- I'm a girl, I have female parts so there is NOTHING "boyish" about me, my personality might not be the norm but that doesn't mean I'm not a girl.

It just... irritates me you know, that people who claim they're open minded can be so CLOSED minded -.-

"Tomboy" pride I guess, while I'm not into girls I'll always support PEOPLE in general but I just hate how people who scream equal rights discriminate people like me, and while I'm sure it's not intentional it still kind of hurts that I have to run into things like this on a daily basis (do you know how many girls think I'm gay, I have very little female friends because they always get the wrong idea -.-) I just want there to be SOMEONE out there that gets it; that you can be "boyish" or "girly" and still be considered a girl or even a boy -.-

ual orientation has nothing to do with how you act or what you like, it's a matter of what you are ATTRACTED to...

(And I'm in no way saying that "girly" boys and "boyish" girls can't be gay, just that there is always an exception to every rule...)

which ALSO brings me to comment on Ren from NU'EST, you know, the "girl" of the group- unless he has female parts he is NOT a girl, he might look like a girl, hell, he could even be Gay for all we know- that does NOT mean he's any less of a guy... he's a very very pretty boy but a boy nonetheless -,- 

I think this was the reason why I didn't like F(X) at first, so many of people who knew about them would always claim that they just knew Amber just HAD to be gay, she just has to because she's not "normal"...

like I said, unless someone actually comes out and says it, we can never really "know" if someone is gay, that's a matter for that person to decide and even if they are it's another thing entirely to "come out" there is a reason for people to keep these things secret and becoming little detectives trying to PROVE someone is gay or not is hurtful to that person- hate crimes happen people, please respect other's wishes.