What should I do

ok..I`ll try to keep this as short as possible

For the past few months, I`ve gotten back with my ex( which is my boyfriend right now). We broke up for a year and more before getting back together. We both have other relationships in between, and he was the one who wanted to get back together,I on the other hand, didn`t even knew he already broke up, and he didn`t know I was in a relationship that time.

I got into another relationship because I tried to forget about him but it was wrong, to using another person to get over one and wrong that I can`t forget about him. We got back together, his other ex wanted him again but he also used her to forget about me(kindda) But in the end he rejected her and stayed with me. I was happy, since I have always love him. Never go on a day without even thinking of him, even after we broke up.

Now, (idk how long have we been together) he says he hates me being clingy (on the phone, like texting) cause that way I`m too annoying to him. And because it`s not good for his eyes to stare that long on his phone. This year, both of us are going to different University or College. I know we can`t always chat on the phone. (as in literally the whole day).

He said that we should be like another couple in our school, they`ve been dating for a long time, they don`t really interact a lot in school but they still have sweet interaction between each other.

Our friends (both side), secretly wants us to break up, they(his friends) think I`m a , they (my friends) think he`s not worth it. My mom hates him to death, like she literally wants to punch him when she sees him.

and I really want this relationship to work, it`s naive to say this but I really love him, more than anything in this world, and I would give up everything just for him (I guess, never really tried it yet) 

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v_JayB
#1
Interactions and Communication are important. At first I haf this problem with boyfriend too. He hadnt got the time because lf work and I was clingy as ever but that changed slowly it needs of course some time till you trust each other again, since it is quite broken? and trust me i am.with my boyfriend already 3 years together and aometimes we even have a small phone call a day?? which is not that much.. but what can we doo we have a work life a family life and everything, try not to think to much about it just go with the flow. :D
jjongshoe
#2
I’d say follow your heart, but not blindly
Because your gut feeling will be more accurate

Wait till you start university and that time if you see any changes in the way he treats you (as in if he’s not good to you) then tell him to get lost

I didn’t listen to my gut when it was shouting out advice so I regret it now