I hate to do these type of blogs, but I'm so sick of people making nasty comments about this...

 


 

I don't talk about this much because I'm not looking for anyone's pity, and because I also don't want it to define how people think of me (I like being funny and cute Miso, not "that sick girl"), but I have some serious health problems. There are times when things are so bad that it takes everything in me to fight through it, which leaves me with no energy or willpower to write or come on here and reply to messages. It's not because I don't care or don't want to talk to anyone. So if you have a problem with me disappearing sometimes, not being able to update regularly, or not being able to reply immediately to messages, then please unfriend me and stop following everything of mine instead of leaving me nasty comments about it. I really don't need that kind of negativity in my life. Thank you.

 

Also, putting "lol" at the end of an comment doesn't make it any less -ish

It actually makes it more so.

 

If anyone needs a reminder of bad behaviors I will not put up with then you can find that blog HERE

 

And to everyone else who has been really great and supportive over the years

 

I love you!

 

❤-(◍•ᴗ•◍)-❤

Miso

 


 

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BNA2086
#1
💜🧡💛💚💙❤
Sehun8gfat
#2
You're free to update however you want or whether or not you want to reply to anyone. It's totally understandable. Don't mind the negativity or the bad comments or anything else. Do what you think is right. I wish you all the best sweetie, I hope you get much much better very soon <3
TEN_Net
#3
Wonder why these ppl need to write hateful comments, they just want to be satisfied but torturing someone else n laugh at their misery ..
For writing its not a work that we need it to be done to get paid . we write when we have the inspiration and we feel like it and these moments doesnt comes easily for everyone .
It gets harder too when we have things In our lifes, we all have a life with family , friends, bf, gf , husband and whatever that they need our attention and for that updates would get late ...
I too appreciate all my readers, even though some stories i didnt update dor years, (seriously for years) but i never had any bad comment n if i had i would tell them the same ... Im doing my best but if you dont like it then unsub .

Ignore these comments, focus on your health n write when you like to write and when its fun to u and not an obligation.. ❤❤
Ireadeveryday #4
This post is the most legit thing I've read today and.you're right. I like how its told and you're not bullinng around. Simple as that. Love it
RedStar01
#5
I love you too.~♥~ Haters will always gonna hate.. Don't worry about them and focus on being healthy. O(≧▽≦)O

And to those haters, fxxk off and take ur negativity with you.
KimJiByung
#6
I wouldn't worry about commentors like that, I mean, if they're really that impatient, why don't they just a write a story themselves? We all have completely different lives off of AFF and some are more trying than others, and some more hectic. If they can't accept that reality then they really should get outside more often.
Don't let these people get you down, keep your chin up. ;)
DaeJeayo
#7
And then you get me, arriving 3 days late for this. Tries not to laugh because I find everything funny nowadays. Sees Hobi's expression and wants to laugh even more.

Just smile and wave though. Remember what I said once: as difficult as it is for you, you don't have to pay attention to what everyone says, especially when they're being negative and stuff. Or at least I think I told you this before. I feel like I have. Or should have. I'm hungry...

You don't owe anyone anything. It's great that you respond to everyone whenever you can and that you care a lot, but to those who don't reciprocate or whatever you have no need to feel upset about them.

Okay. Am done. Time for me to disappear again for a month or five XD
vividimole
#8
Toxic people -.-
I hope you're better now Miso! ❤
rose_petals #9
I understand you with the health problems part. I'm the same way. I hope you feel better soon 💕
affgaga #10
\(^3^)/ just prioritize yourself otonim dear and block those unhealthy people..
Palris #11
I hope you are feeling better now and that your health gets better and you be healthy for life😙
darkshoumy #12
NoorKyra
#13
I don't understand these guys .... Being a writer... You're don't always have a constant ideas of the story you've write.
Sometimes the ideas coming like the tsunami....and you can write maybe for a few quite long chapters..
And mostly when the writer's block came,you can't even write a few paragraphs... Everything is not connected and there's a huge gap between this situation to the others...
And one more... We're human and we have our own life... Some of us is still a student,some of us is working persons and some of us is already married.
And don't play with the others health... When they're sick, they're really sick... Get well soon author nim....
Even though, your health is not quite good but you have a big heart,like really really big heart. Always stay positive and cheerful.. and I really adores you author nim...

Get well soon author nim.......!!!!!
exotarian
#14
Listen, I don't know you. I don't know anything about you. That taken into consideration, however, I do know what it's like to struggle with health problems. I have some very serious health problems of my own that often leave me so confused and too exhausted to get out of bed that I'll disappear for days, weeks, months, and once I even vanished for several years. So, from one person who struggles with something to another, take it from me that if people can't take the time to understand that there is a real person living, breathing, existing, struggling, growing, and trying to heal behind your username, behind the stories you write, behind the attention you give them, then they aren't worth your time. You have so much more value in this world, in your own life and in the lives of the people around you, than what it's worth dealing with the negativity of the ignorant. Grow, breathe. Heal. Good luck.
RavenUchiha
#15
That that people are that impatient and rude. Many of the writers on here have families, have their lives they have to deal with. If they can't come onto AFF all the time, then many people need to be supportive on the other person. That's why many times there are writers who say that they can't come on all the time due to their health, going to school, dealing with their kids, helping out their family, etc. I always tell them to be patient and come back when they are ready. I'm a patient person and if that means a certain writer won't be on for a few years, then so be it. I've had my share of idiots who think I'm stupid when I tell them I can't come on due to things that are happening in my life.

I do hope you feel better. At least you have many people who are looking out for you and supportive.