Repeating a class?? HELPPP

So again me with the non-aff stuff but i really need help right now...

So this week on thurstay I found out that I have to repeat my class.... and my dad is quite chill about it but I'm really scared to tell my mom because she is all about that education and being lazy is unacceptable and so on.... And I'm just so scared about what she's going to do. I'm used to being screamed at that's no problem. But I'm just scared she will take away everything I need/like like my phone, laptop, possbily even books etc. And we're nearing summer break as well...

I know it's kind of bad to say something like that but I'm just really scared of my mom. and we also have a meeting with the head of my school and I'm just so pressured to tell her.

I don't even know what i want to do with my life. I had a plan: to go to uni after school and study Korean and English and be a translator, but now this situation has made me think about it and if i even want that,.. I'm just so lost an the moment, idk what to do.

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myheartbelongstoexo #1 Jul 15, 2018 15:33:36

Oh this sounds like a difficult situation.. :c maybe you can talk to your mom while your dad is with you as well? And if she would take away your things, how will you study better?
About your future, don't worry too much about that yet! You don't have to give up on becoming a translator just because you have to repeat one year! If you continue doing your best in school, you should still be able to go to uni, I'm sure your mom will understand that as well. But I understand it's terrible to be scared of a parent, I'm afraid of my father, so I know it's difficult... But that's why I thought maybe you can talk to her together? And explain things if she gets angry? (which by the way she shouldn't because there's nothing wrong with repeating a year)
I hope things will be alright in the end! I'll wish you good luck and strength <3

sleepingprince #2 Jul 15, 2018 15:06:47

Its okay dont feel too bad. After all you have done your very best. Education is a journey is not a race . It dosent matter how long it takes for you to get there, what matters is you truly enjoy it and that you managed to complete and finished it at your own pace. I think your mom would be understanding if you show her that you will work harder this time around. Besides, you're not the only one. So just try be honest with her . Eventually she will have to accept it somehow. You can do it ! I hope that things get better for you :)