When someone comes to you and told you about their suffering, did you really know what that person expect from you? That person did not expect lots but a little support to show. Cause that person cant hold it anymore. Thats why they came and they choose you cause they trust you. But, infact what did you give back to them? A telling that they need to handle it by theirself. You said, 'You are the one that need to do it. If not you, how will you gonna be better? Coz you are the one that feels it. You know it better.' Did you think they did not know this fact? Yes, they do know about it! Because they know it so much thats why they come to you TO SEEK HELP! But, how can they fight with it if there is no supports to them? They asked for your support. Just some supports. A little. Dont do much. Just enough to always be there for them. Cause this kind of person is so ing lonely inside out. They always think they are alone and isolated. Their mind is so ed up and cant think straight. They need somebody. They need someone to hold them so they can standing properly. But, what did you do? You reject them. How? By telling them that they need to deal it with theirself. Dont you understand? They already deal with it, with all their might, but nothing seems to working out. So they come to find you. But you reject them. Makes them feels like their last hope is gone. You are their last hope. And when they did not come around anymore. Did you notice? Did you realize? You may see them smile. Probably a fake smile. You may see them laugh and happy like others. Probably a fake too. Coz when this happpens, they actually had decide that its better to suffer in silent than keep seeking help. Coz nobody is really willing to give a hand. And when they take a wrong decisions, you blame them, when you are the one that leads them to decide that. But, its not all your fault. You maybe want to help too.  Its just you dont know how. You couldnt come out with any ways. You maybe think about them too, but because you are too busy with your own things too, you easily to forget them and leaving them behind. And in the end, you couldnt save them.