How to Move On

As title told, 

 

To all unnies outside. Please, please please teach me how to move on from our crush. 

So it started when i am finally free from kpop addiction, flying away from oppas. Tou know, when you started to work, you have literally no time to watch concerts, comebacks and i dont even know what's up with my oppas. 

My mom told me to get married and since i dont have any boyfriend, (Because all my love is for oppa) my mom introduced with her friend's son. I fell in love with him in the first sight. At first i dont really keep my hopes high since im like potato while he have korean look, with small eyes and big smile (maybe the reason why i fall in love with him)

 

After long chats and conversations, i can't denied that i truly love him. He is so sweet and nice. He treats me like a princess and caring for me like what my father did to me. Thats why i thought my dream is coming true. Having handsome, nice, husband. So i decied to confess.

 

After confessing my real feeling, we became too awkward. Not really for me but i can feel he is avoiding me. I have sent him hundreds of words and he just replied with 'yes' 'uuh' 'I so busy' bla bla bla. 

 

He told me to get another guy. He is not yet ready to get commitment. I saw his facebook, he wanted to travel again and started his expensive hobbies. Why he agreed to meet me when he dont really interested with blind date? I swear i want to curse out. Really.

After he left me with blue ticks, i kept silence for 4 days and he didnt even text me back. Last night, i cant hold my feelings anymore, i texted him first. And that was my stupidest act ever. *cries*

 

Help me. Help me please. I dont want to long for him anymore. *Cries*

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lovelyndgrey2230 #1
Hello :) I dont know if you still remember me but I know we once talked before ^^

I know this is late but I wanted to share my experience anyways ^^ I've recently moved on from a crush, and never actually told him my feelings, so I salute you for being brave enough to tell your crush your feelings. While our experiences maybe different, similarly, the guy led us on and all of a sudden, things change afterwards. It is inevitable chingu, especially if the guy never had feelings for you in the first place. You deserve better is what I'm trying to say :). I think the best way to move on is to concentrate on yourself :), treasure the ones that truly were there for you in the beginning and look at the brighter things in life ^^ A crush is a passing one, someday you'll find the perfect one for you :)
Azuremoon #2
I'm really sorry to hear that
I just went through something like that except worse. I liked the same guy for 5 years of my life. When I finally decided to text him my feelings,he never replied. I didn't know how to feel about it after. At first I felt relieved, then I felt angry and dead inside but now I feel nothing. I feel nothing in a good way. I thought about it and I'm like I'm tired of this. I'm tired of feeling this way for someone who doesn't see me. I'm tired of feeling pathetic. So the curse was lifted lol. It's a bit disappointing but I feel empty in the most light way. I feel I can start living now
taehyungsbae95 #3
I'm so sorry. Just try to forget about him by distracting yourself (also kpop is the best escape ;p) and hang with other friends because they'll cheer you up :) good luck <3
sleepingprince #4
Meet new people , go do fun activties and basically just try keep yourself busy .
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