I'm sorry to hear that, but i agree on what is everyone is saying in here. You do deserved someone better, and since you are still young, there are far more better opportunities coming your way. You don't need someone like him in your life, don't worry karma will get him one day. Just be positives and just focused being a teenager. Life is far more precious to get heartbroken and lost for someone who doesn't know the value of a person. I have my share of those kind of people, some of them betrayed me and lied to me but in the end you only have yourself to defend with. So, stay strong my friend, enjoy life for now, hang with your friends, cherish the one that is with you and you never know you might caught someone's heart along the way. ^_^

This is sad. I know how you're feeling. Everyone will tell you that you deserve someone better than him, and in fact, it's true; but in the moment you just feel like your world is crashing down. You feel broken up. Yes, this will happen because you're hurt. You'll cry, you'll miss him, you'll feel pain, you will want to talk to him and will have to bear with that. But hey! You're doing great. The best you can do is stay away from him and forget about him, because he's just not worth it, and if it hurts, that's not love honey.
I hope you don't make the mistakes he did. Don't look for someone at this moment to forget about this guy. Just focus in loving yourself and doing things you most love. And if someone appears in the way, let him in. Don't hate on roses , just because one of them hurt you. There are still good guys out there ;)

He doesn't deserve you. It's pretty clear that he isn't even trying to invest himself in something other than expressing his ual fantasies. If he can't show the effort of trying to understand you and get to actually know your stories and pain, then he isn't worth it.

I'm not going to comment on the because it happens. I don't think there's a rule where you should only get close to someone your age or someone 2-3 years apart from you, but if it's something he keeps in mind and uses against you, I think whatever relationship you have with him shouldn't be pursued. I have a guy friend who's 10 years older than me. We've shared some ual jokes but never actually implied on acting upon it. For a whole year, I've known and talked to him, we've brought it up only 4-5 times out of 365 days and more. We talk about the randomness stuff and our quirks which I would talk to with my other female friends. If this man cared about you, he would respect you and act like an actual friend. He shouldn't act like a douche bag and use you for the fact that a young woman is interested in him or whatnot. Before you plan on dating a dude, I think it's better to ask if you feel comfortable with him first. He shouldn't make you feel insecure or confused or disheartened through his lazy responses.

Guys like him pisses me off the most.

There are a lot more experiences and people to meet out there. I'm sure you'll find someone who will actually treat you properly and like a princess =)

aww, this is sad) :
be strong okay!

I'm sorry but you deserve someone much more better than him, you could better off without him. He really pissed me off with that 'still love the ex' and still took advantage of your sympathy with pleasure, he literally showing his true self, of what he really wants from you. He didnt appreciate and took your kindness for granted. And that shows what an he was. He ed up and only thinks about himself, why could he want from you when he just broke up, why he never open up his feelings, his troubles to you when you told him everything about yourself, when you always there for him and instead everytime he came to you he wanted to fulfill his stupid needs. He's a ing living rag.

Pardon my harsh words but that's what my opinions ting about him. I knew you thats why I'm pissed because I care. It's not my place to tell you this but you should forget about him, make him as a bitter memories and a lesson and thank him for making you much more stornger than you already are. I know it wont be very easy, I've been there, done that but that's how life going, right?

You long gone and that his own lost but you still have that bundle of your own joy. Your families and friends, they still cares and loves of who you are. I meant it would be better if you don't push them away, they must be worried sick about you, right? It could be better— if you ready, that you vent all your problems to them. They will understand, they're your families and they loves you.

I hope you feel much better soon. It's really unhealthy if you stress out too much. If you ever feel lonely and need someone by your side (in our case— on screen you do know what I tryin to say) feel free to talk more about it to me or you can post it on your blog. Stay strong and live your life with no regrets and happiness.

Sweetie,

I know you probably don't know me and that's fine. Since you're on my friends list, we connect in some way. I usually don't say much on here, but I felt the need to offer you my words of advice on this situation. This man is around my age, and you're 17 years old. I can't tell you who to date or to be interested in. That is entirely up to you, but I do think that this man is taking advantage of your kindness and naiveté.

He feels as if he can use you because you're always there when he wants you ("WHEN HE WANTS YOU"). That's not a good thing. He's a grown man and you're still a growing adolescent. There's something wrong with him seeking lust from you when technically you're still a child. That strikes me the wrong way and concerns me. You deserve someone who gives you love, kindness, and support. If he doesn't treat you like you're of value to him, then he simply doesn't care. Let him find someone else to use for lust. Block him and move on. You're still young. You'll meet an awesome guy who's a great catch for you. Stay positive, my friend! ;D

P.S. Another word of advice for future relationships: Be patient and allow things to unfold. Asking your partner about past relationships can cause problems and stir up hurt feelings if things ended badly. Do ask questions but give your relationship time to blossom before asking very personal ones.

Dear, you're still young though not very young. But I'll say sometimes guy doesn't like to have girl sticking around, poking her nose at his business for all times. I mean, I'm not trying to discourage you or what, but let's just say, both of you need personal space for your own. A day or two without texts is fine, mine is even worse, he will be MIA for weeks before coming back to me, but he said he is interested in me! And my heart tells me he is the one, though he doesn't know how to talk with me XD
Mine too always give me short one word response whenever we texted. is not a problem dear, because mine is almost the same like you, 8 years gap. You see, they are adult and they have their problems which we may not understand. But as long as we are there to support them, they are happy. I mean the simple cheer up will do. We can't always have them by our side.
And about 'he needs you for lust'. I don't because I don't know the both of your personally and of course what is in his mind. Telling the other half about their past is something like a taboo. It'll not only bring pain to the owner of the story but the one who is currently having a relationship with him/her. Yes, we should cherish the past and move on to the present, but how many can do that? And worse, some may get jealous because of the EX(es) and misunderstanding comes next. I'll say when he/she is ready, even you yourself is ready, he/she will tell you without you asking him/her. It's like an open talk, honest to each other.
Dear, running away from problem will not solve the problem itself. I know for the moment, you'll be finding it hard to do so, but when you're much more calmer and better, try to have a heart-to-heart talk with him. Both sides need to have their story(ies) told. That way, both of you may see the light at the end of the path.
Cheer up dear!!!
I know you can do it *hug*

friends with benefit? he needs you for lust?
what the heck. screw that bastard. i don't really know how you guys act in real life since you said "we act like a couple" but the fact that he's an effing 25 year old who's wanting from a 17 year old is kind of... disturbing? is he even in his right mind?
you don't deserve a guy like him. ditch him. screw that douche. he's still not over his ex. he's an idiot who's af and is basically playing with you.
being a rebound and you dont deserve a person like him.

DITCH HIS .

I might be sticking my nose in something I'm not supposed to, but I'm very glad you are trying to stay away from this toxic relationship. You deserve someone who will invest their time for you, and someone who appreciates you. You are still young, so you have better things (and better guys) out there waiting for you. A relationship based on physical interaction will only hurt you and he'll only benefit from it. Don't let him, or anyone, determine your value because your value should always be priceless. :) stay strong, and I wish you the best.