Getting married!!!

So guys, my childhood sweetheart (idk if I can even call him that, more of a teenagers sweetheart) is getting married.... well an arranged marraige

He is 20 years old, and studying IT Engineering. He is also Japanese. He and I have always had this thing, but we always dated other people and never each other. My defence is that his father doesn't like me very much...but anyway.

He skyped me yesterday asking for help with designing something and when he said his wedding invitation, I all but ended the call.

My friend told me I should gate crash the wedding, but that is dumb (right?)

Am I being petty in not supporting him, or what???  like I am 18 years old and never imagined marraige now!!!!!!

HELP ME!!!!!!

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niangniang #1
omg i just noticed that this is a really old blog post lol just got caught stalking xD i came here from your latest blog post haha ^^;;
niangniang #2
i personally dont think its /that/ early to get married because i mean im so ready to marry my bias though im 19 but idk xD did you really hang up on him the moment he said that, though? like mid-sentence? gosh, i understand and i'd have done the same thing but i hope things dont get awkward between the two of you now >-<
ParkJimins_TinyWifey #3
You know I understand I have a crush on this guy at my work but I found out he has been engaged to his gf for ten years andi even met his fiancé, but recently I found out they might have broken up but I have no idea I still have a little crush on him but I doubt things will happen between us...I would love to get married one day but honestly 18 is too young for merriage u got your hole life ahead don't u have things like school and stuff like that u would wan to focus on? Maybe start a career marriage is a lot of work, too and if u plan to have kids they are expensive and a lot to handle as well because kids usually come after merriage just saying I hope u understand :) I think u do deserve someone better though as well because if u guys are dating other people then maybe u should find someone that's more loving and caring and gives u all the attention u deserve? Am I right? Lol
ELFSonal #4
Isn't it to early to get married?
ilovechangkyunim #5
omg. why i'm so sad? :"
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