boy troubles

omg guys what even is life udifjireqlfkeriojfIJIDWHDJIWDWJ

so basically a few months ago (over half a year ago xD) this guy asked me out and i felt so BAD BECAUSE I BASICALLY LED HIM ON WITHOUT EVEN REALISING :') anyways, soon after, he started going out with this other girl that idk (shes really pretty thoo) and it was still awkward between us but recently (a few weeks ago) he broke up with that girl.

AND I HAVENT SPOKEN TO HIM IN OVER 7 MONTHS, time fukn flies bro 

before (in that 7 month period that we didnt talk) it wasnt that awkward because we didnt have any classes together but now we do D: so obviously its kinda awkward BUT I DONT WANT IT TO BE AWKWARD

so it was his birthday recently and i was debating on whether or not to send a text but ultimately, i did and we kinda had a conversation

like we were talking about his ex and i was just asking about the breAK UP AND ALL THAT JAZZ

and now IDK IF ITS GONNA BE AWKWARD IN CLASS TOMORROW AND I REALLY DONT WANT HIM TO CATCH FEELINGS AGAIN SO IDK IF I SHOULD KEEP MY DISTANCE OR WHAT

AND HIS HUGS WERE SO NICE I MISS HIS HUGS AND IM PRETTY SURE I HAVE NO FEELINGS FOR HIM BUT I JUST WANNA HUG HIM BC THEY'RE SO NICE UHUHUHUHU

*sweats bc the reason he caught feelings for me is bc i kept hugging him and i was always around him*

TBH I HONESTLY DONT UNDERSTAND HOW HE CAUGHT FEELINGS FOR ME BC I AM JUST A POTATOOOO

and hes also good looking but im just not attracted to him ; just his hugs /SLAPPEDDDD

BUT yh i feel like if i got to know him theres a chance id catch feelings but thats a very low chance lol

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ashkhen #1
Awwwwwww that's okay and hope things get back to normal
shulahoops #2
Just be straightforward with how you feel , people aren't mind readers, they need to be verbally told what's going on.
Emycyingztars #3
OH MY GOD I-
There's this guy who has been liking me for three years even though I literally said, "I like you as a friend" on the first day of his confession. Apparently he likes the idea of liking me, which means that he likes the idea of cuddling or holding hands with someone and I somehow managed to replace his image of that someone. He probably doesn't like me, but he definitely enjoys the idea of liking me. Funny part is, I am a er for anyone who confesses because I am naturally an awkward worm so somewhere along the way I BEGAN LIKING HIM, TOO? But it's too late to do anything about it :/ . Plus, his feelings definitely died down over the course of three years so what's the point tbh.

Another thing is, I ship this guy with his taller friend. They're literally the sweetest.
pandalaxic #4
Just be honest with him. Communication is the key. Tell him that you just want to be friends and not have something with him because you miss him as a person not to have something with him.

Like, the same way you don't like people speculating behind your back it's the same way you should treat him. Clear out the waters with him be honest to the fullest; maybe he doesn't even like you anymore and misses you just as much. Also, baby, there's nothing as such as 'leading on' he did that to himself because I bet my soul that he knew from a beginning that you didn't have feelings towards him.The human mind is a powerful thing and can let us believe something where it doesn't exists even when consciously we know there isn't anything there.
MarryM #5
I don't really no since I've never been in a relationship, but I think it'd be good to tell him the things you mentioned here and maybe yeah, after awhile you'll fell for him ;)
superdupper #6
He's cute ... Talk to him more .. Hehe
NoorKyra #7
It's okay to give him a try.... Not suddenly jumps into a couple thingy...
Be friends with him first..... And after this, you decided if you wanna take to the next level or staying as a friends.
His hug.....????? If you feel good and protected with his hugs.... Maybe it's a good things...
Good looking or not is not a problem if he see your attractive personality...
Friends first....
Mumu11 #8
Just be yourself but keep in mind that you need to set the boundary if you want to stay friends. By the looks of it, he still is smitten with you (he started dating so quickly like what even? after you two broke up - guys do that only in spite or to forget the one girl they like).

You don't need to be afraid to 'lead him on' he is already into deep so... get on with your life and do as you feel. It's his choice to keep hanging on to you..though you might feel differently about him with time. Just do.as your heart tells you in any case you will find better.
Taurus57 #9
He seems nice, why don't give it a try?
mehjik #10
He sounds cute^^
You should start talking to him more though
He seems nice
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