Cyber bullying and Idols

I don't know if I even have right to bring up this matter here, but it annoys me too much if I kept bottled up my thought.

What the hell is wrong with BAP or other idols that been bullied until it left them apologized for something that wasn't their fault? The recent cases of Daehyun's skin tone and Youngjae's orange hair is the clear example for what netizens had done, and to be worse, it left both Daehyun and Youngjae to promptly react.

 

Daehyun reupload his selca with white washed filter after there's the comments that told him that he looks dark, while it was his original skin tone and he even apologized for his 'not-so-white' skin. I understand Korean culture much, since I've been working with Koreans for over three years. They were obsessed with the white, pale or fairer skin and there's almost thousands of clinical and skin care product from Korea that promised fairer tone after scheduled usage. But, I do felt so wrong when Daehyun being dissed in social media where he has his whole right to update what he want. Koreans is bold, I have to admit this. I've been criticized once or twice for what I am wearing in public, but since it's in their country, it is acceptable because no one will pay much attention with what happened around them. Criticism is normal there, but it's not at the outside of their country. The selca that he took is visible worldwide, and so do as every comments that been send. What Korean seen in Daehyun's reuploaded selca is their satisfaction of beauty standard but in the world's eyes, it is cyber bullying.

 

Then Youngjae's orange hair incident. I don't want to talk much about it since it will touch the other fandom, but still, I'm really angry. I don't know how to say this, but that fandom somehow irritates me to the point I want to punch their faces one by one. I know not all the fan were like that, but please, if you wanted to be respected, respect others first. I don't know Youngjae personally but I do think that he's hurt with the harsh bashes he had in his twitter, and he even deleted it. Saying that he's not talented is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo rude! I really likes his soothing voice, he's sound bit like Bruno Mars when he hit high notes. About his dancing skills, fyi, he's the third best dancer in BAP after Zelo and Jongup. WHY DID YOU HURT MY BABY JAE?!!! *throwing bombs and mortar to the accuser* Youngjae looks so done and bit down in their recent Vlive and I hope he's not taking that matter too far... T____T

 

I may sound like I'm defending BAP here, but hell, whoever have been together with BAP since the early will remember the cold war we have with EXO's fandom in 2012/13. Both BABY and EXOTIC screaming to each other's face to proved that our bias group is the best. We have a really tensed moment but it's all ended in peace, we fought by voting our boys and bought their physical and digital albums. Remember on MAMA 2012 (or 2013) where we fought for the award but in the end Busker Busker won it? It's kinda bitter memory but it is fun... fair enough to shut our noisy bickering. HAHAHAAHA XD

 

But what happened now is way disgusting. Dissing other group while worshipping your bias group is really wrong and it's so immature. I hope the situation will be better soon and I really want to see the sassy Jae again. How could you steal my angel's smile while he's so innocent and sensitive... Oh my Jae *crying in the corner*

 

I'll always be a BABY and I'll never leave this fandom. I've been through all sad and happy moment with BABYZ and I really respect BAP for being so brave and strong even when the road goes hard. For those who'd leave us, it's okay though... BABYZ wont hate or blame you since music is universal...

 

And I can't wait for 8/8/16.......... ehheeheheheheheh

 

being in LOE twice; met one of the member personally twice; how could I leave them if they were so beautiful and talented?

 

sincerely;

Forever BABYs...

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obscuredthoughts #1
PREACH!!!
Dae and Jae didn't deserve to be treated that way. They are PERFECT! I don't see why other fandoms have to do stuff like this. I mean, like, what's that gonna get them? Nothing but a bad impression on their fandom. Thank you for sharing your words!