friends with benefits??

just wondering but... what are all of you guys' thoughts about the concept of being friends with benefits?

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sungmin101
#1
its interesting; you never know where its gonna go. Uphill or downhill?
Mandarinhibiscus #2
It's dumb to me it seems like a waste of time when you just could get a real relationship.
Rarely
#3
As long as you're both able to keep the emotions out of the equation, fwb/nsa rocks. At this point in life, it's the only thing I'm into.
69yen_
#4
I think it's fine. Even though bad, my fiancé and I started off that way.
Exoinspire
#5
Ahaha, that concept, I think the thing you must really grasp on the most is the reason the pair are doing it :3 . They gotta be careful they stick with the reason or else they'll be stuck in a whole heap of trouble.
Caniwi
#6
I don't have a problem with it, as long as both parties agree to it :)
biasedonaron1
#7
ive actually done that before. make sure you dont start to care too much, because that can happen and it gets tangled and ick :P
idk much about it, because i only made with him 4 times and we stopped when he had a gf, but be careful
goddessbangtan #8
As someone in a situation sort of like that, I think you just need to be mindful, and be really good about communicating with the other person, especially if you do become attached and begin to want an actual relationship. And if you're unhappy, voice that. Just because it's not a romantic relationship doesn't mean you can't talk or have feelings. And me and my partner remind ourselves that we are friends first and foremost, and that that will matter more than anything else.
flowerboysnextdoor97 #9
I would becareful if i were you because sometimes you can become attached to that friend and it can go good or bad
Djatasma
#10
FWB is a slippery slope. Friends us the important part right? I think it depends on how it started. If you were friends then started being physical it should last. However I find when its reversed it(friendship) fizzles when the physical is done.
pastelyoghurt
#11
well... i personally think its not suggested but i cannot say its bad because i feel that im using my current best friend even though idk how she think about me...
whenever we go hangout together she always drive me home and we go using her car (its because no one can drive me and i live at the city 2 hours away with flight from my parents), she pays for me when we play in the arcade as well... i dont even know whether im using her or not....
KimAlien
#12
It sounds like you friend with them only for your own please..
KimAlien
#13
I don't agree with it and never will because it's not a true friendship..