Its been a long while since I wrote a blog post! The workload for senior high is extremely overwhelming! I'm currently on my 2 week easter break but honestly there's no room for slacking around, but I just can't let my aff habits fall behind me. This community is now an inevitable part of my life and I just can't leave it behind!

But anyways, I couldn't scroll down my feed on all of my social media platforms without having to rant about this. Because seriously people need to calm the fkcu down :)

An open letter to all upset EXO-L's and to the hysterically angry EXO-L's

Dear EXO-Ls

   It's more than normal to be upset about unrequited love, wether it be on the basis of someone you like and know personally or if this person is a korean idol you've followed and adored for years. It is completely normal to be sad when someone you like starts dating someone else. It is arguably a part of human nature. Nothing puts a damper on your day than finding out that your bias is dating another idol. MOST ESPECIALLY IF THAT IDOL IS THE GORGEOUSLY TALENTED KRYSTAL OF f(x). I mean there goes the songs your bias sings about liking the nothing-special, normal, nuetral girl that could be metaphorically interpreted as the typical fan girl. Not that we're basic though, we're more than basic, Exo-ls especially are grandiosely amazing in more ways than one, their fanbase shows the unity alot of groups aspire to have (and this goes beyond the world of kpop fandoms). So sure, we get upset about Kai dating Krystal because we love Kai, and idols first and foremostly owe it to their fans. We the fans are an idols first love. Without us, there are no idols. Seriously. But the thing is I need to rephrase something alot of kpop news websites like allkpop, koreaboo or soompi say about this extremely exaggerated 'event'.

Kai and Krystal are not dating. Jongin and Soo-jung are.

I didnt just use their real names for added drama to this post. I used it for a justified reason. The idol will always be the idol. The person behind the idol, should have the same rights as any other person. So to all those hysterically angry Exo-ls, sit the down and understand that Kai is yours forever. Kai will always be the lovable, sweet and shy persona you all came to love. That is set on stone. So stop hitting below the belt by saying rude and disrespectful comments on Kai's appearance, on Krystal's personality, adding ual innuendos to their vacation photos, just stop. To all those people who say that they are no longer fans of Kai, two words: bye felicia. 

I SALUTE THOSE EXO-LS WHO ARE MATURE ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND AND RESPECT JONGIN's DECISION TO DATE. You guys are the true essence of all Exo fans. To the fans that love both Kai and Jongin. To the fans that love beyond the limits of being just a fan, and most especially those people who will always continue to support Kai. 

I personally dont care If I get hate for posting this. Because I am not entertained by people who continue to pursue the path of stupidity by disapproving of someone's decision to date just because of their selfish delusions of caging and 'protecting' the person. Life goes on, and if you lack the brain to understand that all idols are humans. You must walk away from Kpop because your life is halted by your fanatical thinking, because Kpop Idols werent put on this earth to limit your life they were formed because they choose to entertain, and inspire dreams not hate.

So I'm just going to end this rant by saying. If you don't support Jongin dating, thats cool, thats okay.but if you choose to voice out your distaste in the form of threatening and stupid comments; hate to break it to you sista, you were never a fan in the first place.