So everyone's seen the photo of Kai and Yoona on Elle Magazine right?

Yas. I have and it is gorgeous.

I mean the look in Kai's eyes just makes me melt and Yoona with her beautiful self is just slaying. I love the cover. I know people are like "ok but why are you making a blog post about it like Kai hasn't posed with other girls before" and my answer is BECAUSE I WANT TO, THAT'S WHY.

I mean I thought he and Krystal was the end of it but nah, the slayage continues. 

I do have to say one thing tho :

I better not catch a single soul bashing Yoona or Kai cause I will release all of satan's spawns on that .

I mean really they are both adults and they can do whatever they want if they like. 

Sure be all heartbroken but don't go bashing either of them, especially Yoona because I know how stans get when its their "oppa" seen with a girl.

I get sooooo annoyed when fans forget that their favs don't owe them anything but a good comeback  and amazing entertainment. News flash my darlings: THEY WILL DATE OR GET MARRIED SOONER OR LATER. Whether you like it or not it's going to happen and it might even be happening now. Keep telling yourself :

"They're too busy to date"

"This idol said this and that"

"They would tell us if they were"

"It is fake."

Come on, you don't even believe what you're saying that's denial talking. 

I get it, you like him, I used to act that way when I was 13 in my early pre-teens. When I had the biggest crush on Jesse McCartney and then Ryan Reynolds but of course when you get older and understand things better after experience (and getting yelled at by your parents non stop) things that used to bother you don't bother you anymore.

I love the fact that my bias could possibly be dating. I'm happy for them because with kpop idols i feel like they are expected not to date and when it's like that, fans get possessive and annoying (and delusional) and then it's problematic for the idols. In western culture, if it's one thing that I'm forever thankful for it is that they don't care about the fans feelings when it comes to their personal life or doing things that make them happy. Yeah they get backlash but they don't apologize or break up with their partner because of it. They keep on with their relationship without a single and I love that. 

While kpop idols, sadly, have to apologize to their fans for living their life. It makes me feel very bad for them because who should have to do that? No one.

I see fans say sometimes "oh if only american/western artists did this."

Um what? Do what? Apologize for doing what makes them happy? For not announcing their relationship to you? 

They don't owe you an apology. They don't need to announce a thing.

Then fans wonder why they hide their relationships. It's the closest thing to having a peaceful relationship with the one they love or like, without worrying about their partner being harmed or bashed.

And before anyone can bring up the fact of me being a kaisoo shipper/writer etc etc. I know that it won't happen. Everything I write is just a fantasy of what I dream would happen but I'm very aware that it's not going to happen. I know how to separate reality from ... FICTION or fantasy. I'm not out here bashing other ships or anyone who gets close to Kai besides Kyungsoo. My fantasies are all fiction. I know the difference. Do you?

  *heart eyes*