What do I do? (when boundary lines are crossed...)

This guy is driving me insane, he obviously dosen't know the meaning of 'back off' because he just keeps coming back again. Doing the inevitable.

 

 

When we first met he was just a nice, pretty cool to hangout with kind of guy. I liked him. We would always see each other during our snack break and say our little 'heys' and 'hellos' and give hugs since we were beginning to know each other well. Over that week things were good, I had made a new friend, albeit another one through my sister, but still nonetheless, a new friend.

 

However....things changed. He changed....

 

 

As mentioned before, we would only hug every now an then when we would see each other. Remember when I had the previous blog from before and explained why I liked hugs, because I do. He was just getting a bit too comfortable....even for my liking.

 

He would hold on and never let go for the whole ten minutes of our break, every time he would see me on campus or in the halls the dude would always pop out from nowhere and grab onto me and, once again, never let go. By this point, I do not know if I overreacted or was just acting rational as ever (you can decide that) but, I was becoming scared.

I told my friends, and of course them being the way they are- immdeately went into action. Whenever he would come near -even without me even paying any mind- they would suddenly drag me away. Or even hug me before he even tried pulling me in for one (more like force...).

 

But, the reason why was more than the excessice hugging and stalking....

I am pretty sure it was not ualliy assulting...but, I was beyond disturbed.

 

He had come up fron behind this time during passing hour, his hands wouldn't let go of my waist, they absoulutly refused! And to make day even worse....OH GOD! IT WAS SO DISGUSTING!

HE..

....

...NIBBLED...

...AND ING BIT MY ING EAR!

 

Ugh! I still shudder at the thought....

 

I wanted to run...but, as dumb as it may sound -I couldn't. It was on campus, everyone was passing by, some even stopping by and asking if we were dating (HELL NO!!) some even giving him winks, others....asking if he was trying to get any (THE !).

I just cringe at the thought.

EW...

...I'd rather my teachers saggy

Scratch that...nvm

 

He did it again in 6th hour, the boys in my class made fun of me for the rest of the remaining hour whenever they get they got the chance to after that...GOD!

 

I told my dad.

I remember his exact words.... I have no problems with killing a teenager, so either, you figure it out...or I will. He told me to talk to the guy and let him know he needs to stop, he wanted an answer by the next day, even taking the time to remind me to do it and bring him the results -and my dad usually forgets anything that happens within the last 24 hours. He was so eager that day after school he didn't even bother to return my hello when he picked me up, he was disappointed with my answer.

 

It was same day the dude decided to stop...stop everything. Talking to me (or trying), coming near me, even stopping me in the halls. Everything,

 

I was relieved of course, but -I may be a for saying this- also sad. I think one of my over protective guys friends must have told him something gad enough to scare him off, I don't know, but -again I may be a - I just did not want him to hate me.

Hate me for not saying anything myself...for hiding like a coward behind my friends...for not saying anything when they yelled at him to go away.

 

I thought I had just misinterpreted his actions of being just another guy who liked hugs....

....I thought wrong (UGH! As always Taylor, as always!)

 

It had ben almost a month since we last communicated, and this week we actually talked. Like when we first met, no touching (he poked me a few times in the ribs...it was harmless), no hugging, just...talking. It was nice.

We were laughing at something weird my sister was doing -apparently they had just made up from their little fued. (she never liked him in the first place)

 

Unfortunatly they had fought again that same day.....about me. (btw; this was 2 days ago)

My sister told me.....

 

I can't really explain what had happened but I will just tell you how the conversation went down

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They were just randomly talking and then....

Him: man, I need some P**sy

sister: um...okay

Him: ...and I know where I can get some too

sister: ...where?

Him: ...your sister.

sister: *pops the off*

Just imagine my sister with an attitude and him with a cocky personaility during the convo.

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Well yeah that happend. In the end, about three of my sisters guys friends (because she has a lot) and even her boyfriends friends, had to keep her from ing him up.

He was sent to OCD by security, because saying stuff like that can be interpreted into a threat in our school.

And my sister, she was given candy by her friends and comfort by her boyfriend to calm her down.

 

Now I am utterly scared.

I am just done, but, I don't know what to do. I can't just waltz up and say "hey, I know you are a ing fatass, weirdass creep who likes touching small girls and I refuse to become one. So please, for your sake and mine (but mostly yours), leave me the alone.' and just smile and skip away?

 

HELL NO!

 

He did not even come to school today, I am just scared for whne he does

I just...ugh..

 

what do I do?

 

 

 

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lalophobia #1
I had a similar problem except it was really bad ual assault and he's show me his in class and he'd throw me up against walls and me and kiss me all the time and he was so much bigger than me I couldn't do anything and everyone else thought he was just being funny when how the is pulling your out, kissing and my neck in public, and picking me up and tossing me against a wall or on the floor to me in class funny? for me, I had to wait until I graduated high school, so years of harassment because of his status. you on the other hand need to tell someone cause it sounds like you have ample proof and many people to help stop him. charge him. charge him for attemp and ual assault and stalking. least you can get is a restraining order and if he breaks it automatic jail time
TheKpopperOtaku
#2
no mental issues....just a creep
musicbeat
#3
that's more than harassment. even I won't know what to do with that guy. For the time being, all you can do is NEVER be alone.
I pray that he won't approach you anymore.

Does he have mental issues? No offense but he's acting like one.
Mouserabbitlove
#4
What the ..
We are talking about this right now -_-
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