May I know your answer?

Hi, everyone, or maybe EXO-Ls.
Today, I'm writing this blog after a poll I made last night(or any other time in your country).
The reason I'm writing this blog is that I was kinda taken aback by the comments I saw and how people judge things very fast. And also I wanna say that "I made that poll without any specific intention" and I just used that numbers because they were more logical.
I also want to clear this up that Kris and Luhan aren't even my biases that some of you thought that I love Luhan and not Kris and that's why I put 11 as one of the choices. So I should say "You Are Completely Wrong About That" and I'm not someone who just judge a book by it's cover and I would defenitely read the insides of it and then judge it.
Okay, I wanted to answer the comments by asking you all a question and I want you to tell me what you think after giving this question an answer.
So scroll down and read the question completely and answer me honestly.

Please don't say harsh words and leave if you want to say other things other than your answer.

I'll probably post another blog after I get my answer and then I would tell you what I personally think if you want to know and also some other things that I've kept to myself for awhile.

Thanks for reading.

my answer:

http://www.asianfanfics.com/blog/view/1023510

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AmberKazam #1 May 15, 2015 14:53:42

Imagine you for example 20 friends that you adore and call them "your friend". Then one day, one of your "friends" decides to go somewhere. For example, she/he can't study at your current school for a reason, so she/he transfers to another school and maybe never come back again.
So now I ask you this question:
Do you still call her/him your friend?
Is she/he not your friend anymore because she/he left you for some personal reasons?

INCORRECT. It would be more like,

Imagine you for example have 12 people working on a major project together, one that is so important to each adn every one of you and you each have your own part that you are in charge of. Then one day, one of them decides to up and quit without notice, right before the project is due, and they leave because of the call of more money working for someone else's project.
No, I would no longer associate with the person/people who screwed me over. I would no longer call them friend when they dumped all their parts of the project on me instead of carrying it themselves as they promised to do.

THAT is more accurate.

toppdoggs #2 May 3, 2015 13:12:37

I'm confused. I'm not sure why anybody got personal over a poll but eh that's life. Well I'm not sure why I was meant to see this blog (came here because you suggested it) either but I've seen it and I just wanna say that I'm not judging you in any way for putting 11 as an option and stuff so please have a nice year and that is all. Adios. :3

fani437 #3 May 3, 2015 13:08:43

Of course I'd still call them my friend,
yeah we might not meet as often now
because of the different schedules, but
they would still be a part of the group!
Just like my baby Lu and Yifan are to
me a part of Exo. OT12

Kalthoum #4 May 3, 2015 10:24:41

Well, if we do love each other dearly, then of course I'll miss her and I should give her a call.
I would first of all understand why she left, before judging or being mad at her :)

ShtarShtruck #5 May 3, 2015 09:13:01

well, if we were besties, I would still be in contact with her and talk to her through the phone or whatever; but is she decides not to keep in contact, then I would still consider her as my friend, but not a "best friend".

ByungHannie #6 May 3, 2015 07:21:27

Obviously yes. Unless if she's a fake friend.

goopeculiar #7 May 3, 2015 06:36:33

I don't really see how this is relevant to the exo poll.

meowxiii #8 May 3, 2015 06:02:11

Of course I'd still consider that person my friend and that person to be part of our group of 20 people. But if our group of 20 people were famous and the media started blaming the person who left and calling him/her a traitor, would that factor also affect my personal opinion to some degree? Especially if that person suddenly left the group, you're saddened/disappointed and start reading these negative comments. Wouldn't that brainwash you into thinking your friend is a traitor too?
It pretty much depends on how down to earth you are. It's impossible to know what exo honestly think about the members leaving, whether their opinions are positive or negative, when their actions and words are strictly controlled by SM.

MagesticDragon #9 May 3, 2015 06:01:13

Yes because my friend moved and she doesn't want to move back maybe.
We're still best friends

Evysonesuho #10 May 3, 2015 05:45:41

Yeah she/he will be still my friend, but if he/she doesn't participate in our group etc. or doesn't talk to others of the friend group than i doesn't see her as a friend of our friend group, but just my friend.