P/S: Please take this as an advice for your future love-life. 

Dear readers, today, I want to share with you my experience, this is not a trash but something which can be related to our daily lives. First of all, I would like to portray this experience of mine into a story. And by looking at the title, you surely know what it's all about, it's about being possessive. Being possessive is normal when it comes to jealousy etc but being over possessive towards your partner is unhealthy. You know that life does not only about you and your boyfriend / girlfriend, bff. Over possessive can happen either in a love relationship or friendship. For me, I have faced both, in a love relationship and friendship. 

Love: 

When you love someone, certainly you want everybody to know who your partner is and of course you don't want them to even touch him / her. That's normal because what belongs to you, means nobody can touch it, am I right? That is understandable but when he / she started to ask for more attentions and force you to keep your focus only on him / her. That is a start of an unhealthy relationship. As for me, I am obviously a girl but I don't do clingy things, I hardly express my love, my cares even towards the one I'm in love with. I'm more likely a boy who loves hanging out with friends, doing stuff I love and doing the writings for my readers and fangirlings. 

This guy, named Adam which was a boyfriend of mine and we are through, he is now my ex. What I can say, he is the best friend I ever had when we were yet getting into a relationship. He was able to understand me well and perceived my acts toward something I dislike / like. I liked him, and that made me fall for him because he seemed to know me better than everyone else did. But day after day, he started to change. From the beginning of our relationship, I've told him that I dislike endless textings, I hated endless phone calls, I hate someone disturbing me when I was doing my arts and writings and lastly never ever disturb me when I was with my BFFs. He UNDERSTOOD, at first. But then things slowly changed. We worked under the same company and he started to get jealous with everyone I talked to, either girls or boys, he did not want to see me spending most of my times with them, he needed the focus only on him. 

I explained that when we're working under the same roof, we could not be selfish because when you're building a career, you need to have a teamwork with your colleagues and bosses and to have a good environment in any job, all you have to do is building a good relationship with your co-workers. I thought he understood but he did not. He hated to see me talking with my officemates, laughing and he told me that it should be him do the talking and laughing and it was like I did not suppose to get close to them. I started to feel irritated by it. Not to mention when he kept on pestering in everything I did. He would check on my phone, went through my archive whatsapp to see names in my chatlist. I feel unprotected and he made me like I should not have a privacy in life. He even read a conversation between me and my siblings and what was that for? We surely did not talk about men in there. And this one thing, surely will get your eyes popped out an detached from its socket because, HE WAS JEALOUS OF SEHUN. SEHUN WHO STANDS A BILLION KILOMETRES AWAY FROM ME. HE WAS BEING JEALOUS TOWARDS VIVI'S FATHER. Can you even imagine that? We fought for countless of times because of Sehun. I think Sehun would only cringe in disgust if he were to know about this. SERIOUSLY. 

And he was jealous towards my own sister as well. There was this day when I decided to have movies day out with my younger sister and he wanted to join, and my y/ sister did not mind about that but the problem was, he wanted us to take the couple seat and left my y/ sister alone. I ING WOULD NOT DO THAT. FOR THE SAKE OF MY Y/ SISTER'S I FOUGHT WITH HIM. I seriously could not understand how his mind works. Like what the did you eat when you were baby to be this gross? Every single day we would fight for over stupid things because of him. Not to mention when he kept on accusing me having another boyfriend behind his backs. We once broke up and a few weeks ago was the final. I've had enough of having him around. H