Changes

My Thoughts on True Fanship

Hi again its me music_lover10080. Two chapters in one day something must be important. Yes, yes it is. I've been meaning to talk to you guys about this for a while now...

So do you fans know how powerful you guys are? EXO and SNSD always preform fanservice for the fans because of all the fanmade shippings the fans have made. Even though fans can't control their every move, your influence have pushed them to do things they haven't done before. But if all that power was used badly the effects would be devestating. Take hate for example, the people sending hate wouldn't think much about it and dismiss it as an opinion. But to the idol recieving it, it's not just one or two it's millions. Now normal people usually crumble under the preassure of work, school (if your still in school), and every day to day things. But for an idol they have to deal with all those things plus sleepless nights, busy schedules, and the millions of people watching their every single move. All the stress builds up and can take a large toll on a person.

If you're up to date on EXO news you should know this but if you don't I'll tell you. After fans exploded with hate a bunch of fans decided to make a petition to have Baekhyun be removed from EXO AND also decided to go and call him a traitor/betrayer on Inkingayo. Here is a mini article from EXO's make-up artist ,"I think Baekhyun has changed in some ways. When I put on his foundation it sometimes accidentally gets on his pants. Usually he would jokingly say ”Ah noona, do you hate me? Did you do this on purpose? Please, hajima ~” but today he had no reaction.  I apologised and all he replied was ”It’s alright.” by Exo’s Makeup Artist (all credits to the owner.) The hate is starting to get to him, a person can only stay strong for so long before breking down.

If you're up to date on SNSD news then you should know this but if you don't here you go. Taeyeon was spotted at the airport crying and apologizing to fans about this whole situation. I personally believe she is sincere because when you truly cry your eyes get red but if you only fake cry your eyes stay the same. (I know because i have tried this, but feel free to try it for yourself because it might be different for everyone.) She seemed sincere and truly apologetic about this whole thing. 

One of my good friends (bigbangheich) said to me,"It's not all rainbows and butterflies. Sometimes you have to experience the rain and instead of detesting the cold, you should just dance to it." Those were the words of her fansite's administrator. She also said," Love is stronger than the mistakes that were made. As a fan we still get hurt and we have a right to feel that. But you have to keep moving foward. It's not like our lives revolve around them and even if you curse them and stop supporting them their world will still move on."

What she said is true and we should all remember that. So please remember it's not like the world will stop if you want it to, you have to make the best of today. Who has time to waste hating people/things when you could be loving other things instead. 

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Alright! That was on my mind for days now I just really needed to get that out. Ahhhh it feels good to release all my BaekYeon worries. Keep in mind readers this is only my opinion and you choose whether or not to agree or disagree. All credits go to the owners of the quoted things. Special thanks to bigbangheich for letting me quote her in my "story"! <3 Thank you for reading~ <3<3<3

 

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chanyeol614 #1
Chapter 1: I just found your story and I agree with you 100%. That whole comment Baek made about not datin till 35.....idk if it's just me but I never took that seriously. I mean what's an idol supposed to say. That's why in Korea some responses are known as the model idol response. I also read somewhere that apparently that interview was translated wrong and he actually said he wanted to get married after 30 or something not date (but I could be wrong, I only read this). But I honestly took that answer as a joke since things happen in life and you can't hold every word someone says against them. Btw love that you're willing to put you opinion out there and look at the situation not as a fan but as an outsider looking in.
sharonnath #2
Chapter 5: Woww i found your story and i totally agree with you authornim! Uhm, i just want to ask if is it okay if i kind of make this kind of story too? I'm currently writing a fanfic but i've been considering for a pretty long time on writing personal thoughts like you too, it's just that i still don't have the courage to do it and i'm scared that people will ended up getting bored with my thoughts. But then i found your story and it encourage me a lot!:) So i feel like writing personal thoughts like you did, is my way to try my best on supporting Baekyeon, so that people will open up their mind more:) If it's not okay for you authornim, it's okay i won't do it:) i just feel like you're my inspiration on writing personal thoughts about baekyeon so i asked your permission ^.^
adahgogo7 #3
Chapter 8: Good to know there is someone out there willingly to stand for BAEKYEON.. Im Sone and Exotic..there's no doubt i do feel unsure about thier relationship..but as a fan i have to be the best i can to show my support. Gosh..the narrow minded fans have to learn that we're human. Basically, human:we do own the freedow!! So no matter what happen in future..i wish the best for them. Despite they break out in future(who knew),i will always stand next to them. If you call yourself as a fan or fan in fandom..then display your roles as fan in the true way. Btw..author-nim i really appreciate your columnfor this issue. I agree with you a lot.
mhargelynne #4
Chapter 12: . . .
and if anything i've typed struck a vein, then you're welcome to disagree. because by disagreeing it only proves how much you feel it in your heart that what i've typed are most probably the truth.
mhargelynne #5
Chapter 12: . . .
what could i say? you already mentioned everything i feel about this whole ordeal. i am baekhyun-biased and a baekyeol shipper but i never once scorned or hated them both. how could i? when it's someone who i truly love that made a mistake? i did cry once during this issue because i've read comments and stuff regarding baekhyun and i can almost feel second-hand hate of "fans" (that's what those people call themselves) to him. have you ever felt like you love someone so much that you would rather have yourself be hurt than that person? . . . and this morning i read baekhyun's post in ig and i almost cried again. did people really think that he's that insincere? they can't preach him when they. themselves don't know what sincerity is. this whole betrayal thing is just pure b. really is. betrayal? do they (baekhyun and taeyeon) owe you their lives that you feel betrayed that they love each other behind your back? that's just so irrational.
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people like those need to understand that a fan likes a group or band or singer for the music they create. not for the virtual reality they give you. pffft. those type of people are just cowards. they can't face reality, and they choose to live in the fantasy that they hope and wish to live in. and now that that fantasy world is also beginning to crumble, they are aggravated and they blame all their personal problems to those that "threatened" to destroy their shell.
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i'm so sorry this has gone to deep but it hurts to just sit there and hope for some miracle to happen and not do anything about it.
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sorry but i won't take back everything.
xHunnySempai
#6
Wow this is super cool ^^ <3
ArmyEx0ticBaby
#7
Chapter 9: I'm really glad someone else supports Baekhyun and Taeyeon. I agree that this hate is rediculous and needs to stop. Seriously guys! They are human. Humans love other humans. Just because their famous does NOT mean they have to stay single! I'm extreemely glad that they both have a chance at happiness! They deserve that at LEAST! Thank you again for supporting them. Anyone else who supports: please stay strong.
himeeeee
#8
Chapter 9: So, they are real? Woah every time i read about Baekyeon always hurt little bit.

I'm not said and not happy for they become real, but i'm not hate Taeyeon, I'll always support her even though i lose respect to Baekhyun because Taeyeon seem always stand in front on him and take all pain. I always pray that Taeyeon can be strong, i always pray that God always protect her for everything that make her sad and cry.
Now, i don't give a damn about their personal problem, i just appreciate their music now^^

But I don't understand why k-netizen so hate them, and they seem know about something deeper than I-fans, and they keep it only for k-netizen.


Plus one thing about Taeny (sorry if i become delusional), If they are not real, why Tiffany family always like Taeny photo on Ig? Are they just love their bond? Or very trust Taeyeon to protect Tiffany? Or they are really fond of Taeyeon beside Tiffany?
CosmicLatte00 #9
Chapter 5: hi,im here again...just one to agree your words..im pretty much over it.Hearing Heechul who doesnt set his eyes to the ladies of SM as a girl to admire BaekYeon as the first cp in SM is asuring me that if SM got each other's back,everything will be find.I just hope the didnt break up...bcos it would be awkward for them and us...live happily BaekYeon <3.thanks again and again author-nim.
myzyra #10
Chapter 8: i like the idea that u still support both exo and snsd ... i was surprise to see that many fans hate the couple when the news break out. as you can see, taeyeon has been stressing out being a leader all this while and i think ppl should respect her decision. let her live her life rather than being quiet abt things. who knw baek is the one that make her happy... who knw baek is the one that help her relieve stress.. i really hope all of u guys will blessed their rship! that is all i wish... i pity taeyeon when i see the article abt she saying sorry at the airport with a teary eyes. that shows how much she is hurt... anyway SNSD EXO HWAITING!!!