Hi again, music_lover10080 here

Alright, I keep seeing people send so much hate to Taeyeon and Baekhyun and I'm pretty much over it.

I know that there are fans who seriously hate them right now, but in all honesty hate is so simple to give but so hard to take back.

Why is love so hard to give, but way to easy to take back, when hate is so easily given, but too difficult to undo? This fact should be the polar opposite.

The thing is I see articles come out with comments saying "Baekhyun and Taeyeon are using us fans." But in reality, sending them hate will only create more tension between them and the fans. Fans are currently complaining about how Baekhyun treats his fans like dirt, but have you stopped to think about what he feels? Maybe he's stressed and feels helpless to stop this. Maybe he was a little blinded by stardom and forgot some parts that were important pre-debut time. Maybe he honestly can't look/reply to fans right now because he can't think of what to say. We shouldn't judge people by what we think they are because they still have time to change their reputation. Maybe this was the low of Baekhyun's career and now he's striving to make the situation better.

Fans are complaining about how Taeyeon is acting like nothing is wrong. Some called her shameless and desperate and others called her things that I'd rather not say. Although she didn't take 7 years to debut like Suho, she took 3-4 years and that's a lot of work to train. Recently, she started manually blocking her fans from her IG and turned it into a private account. She must have been extremly scared that so much hate was being sent to her right now. She was shocked that her fans were turning against her. I would be pretty shocked too, if tens of thousands of people started sending hurtful comments to me at the same time. If you wouldn't be afraid then you're incredibly brave.

Role play for a minute with me okay?

     Imagine that one day you were checking your SNS and you see one comment full of hate. You think nothing of it, blowing it off as just another anti-fan or something. But then another bashing comment pops up and another and another and another. All of a sudden your comments section is filled with hate and insults and threats. You start panicking and you try to apologize. But the apology backfires and now even more hate is being posted against you. You quickly delete your apology but not before you comments section is flooded with hate. You put your account on private in hopes that the haters would stop the comments. But you realize that the people following you before you put ur SNS on private were still able to follow you. The hate is still there and is still the majority of the comments. What would you do? 

How was my role play scenario?

This is probably what Taeyeon had to deal with and why she made her IG private and blocked a lot of her followers. SONES should know that Taeyeon has been dealing with deppression for a while now. What would it feel like for an already depressed person recieving so much hate in a short period of time? Taeyeon acted irrationally sure but in all honesty it was the fans that drove her to drastic measures.

This whole thing is being blown way out of proportion. Why can't we let the past be in the past and look towards what the future holds? 

Again Why is love so hard to give, but way too easy to take back. When hate is so easily given, but too difficult to undo? 

Love should be too easy to give but incredibly too hard to take back. 

Hate should be easy to take back but extremely too hard to give.

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Hope this made people think a little differently about this whole situation.

{ This is my opinion and thoughts on the BaekYeon issue that I decided to share with the public. You are entitled to your own opinion if you agree or disagree with my personal thoughts. }

Thank you for reading~