Question 221
Suju Advice ColumnDtherabbit
You're really helpful, oppas <3 thank you so much.
So here's my problem (problems after problems -_-): I'm moving. I currently live in Prague, but this summer I'm off to St. Petersburg, Russia. Yay. I'm currently there and it's pretty and stuff, but I feel a bit uncomfortable and unmotivated to explore the city because I still want to make the best out of the time I have left with my friends. My mom and I will be going to Russia while my dad will stay in Dresden because he works there.
There's a lot of tension between my parents as well. My dad is in love with my mom as well as the woman he started his company with and had an affair with her and everything. My mom says they won't get divorced, but that's exactly what it feels like. I'll see my dad one week per month once we move. I don't hate him, but whenever he's gone I can only think of bad things he's done (like the day he threw the lamp and broke it because he was angry).
My dad's side of the family is generally very... depressive. His dad and brother committed suicide, his sister ran away and got into drugs (she's fine now and really awesome), his step father died of lung cancer. My mom's side is also mainly dead. Both of her parents died, and so did her sister (brain cancer). Her brother died at age 10 before she was born and her other sister is an alcoholic.
I guess I just want some advice on how to deal with moving and my parents' situation. Sorry if this is sad and stuff, but I needed to get it out.
Can you spam all the main couples for me? :D too lazy to pick a specific one.
AND SPAM SOME HANGENG BECAUSE OMG I AM SO PROUD OF YOU! Five awards in China as well as beating Psy at the KCAs... so proud :') you better be proud of him too, guys, especially you, Heechul oppa! XD thanks in advance and keep being awesome <3
Heechul: First of all we all need to give you a hug.
Everyone:
Eunhyuk: You been through a lot of hardship and you're still making the best of it. Way to go.
Siwon: God Bless you.
Kyuhyun: Just be brave. Things will get better.
Hangeng: Try and spend as much time with your friends and your old life and then when you move tell yourself that this is your new life and a new chance to be happy.
Donghae: Try not to think about your parents just yet, focus on yourself for right now.
Kyuhyun: And if all else fails, you still have me.
Kangin: No she has me!
Kyuhyun: >.>
Kangin: <.<
Sungmin: You guys mean me.
Shindong: Me!
Siwon: Me!
Donghae: Me!!
Eunhyuk: Me!
Hanchul: Us!
Yewook: Us!
Leeteuk: Me!
Kibum: You're all wrong! It's me!
Donghae: Let's just say it's all of us.
Everyone: Fine...
Leeteuk: Stay strong! FIGHTING!
Everyone: FIGHTING!~
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