When Xander's parents go on a double date with you and Xander and it is the first time that you have met them.

When he cooks you something that you are allergic to but you don't eat it.

When your parents pressure you into something you don't want to do.

When you have a low self esteem about your legs.

When you get stuck in a storm and stay the night with Xander

When you two have a romantic evening together and then cuddle up next to the fire.

When you are late for the dinner date because you were at the doctor's that you found out that you were pregnant.

When you feel left out and non existant in every situation and Xander notices

When Xander takes care of your twins.

When you two sing together in a duet, after you are married and have a quiet moment together backstage. 

When Xander proposes to you on Christmas while cuddling. 

When Xander finds out that you are pregnant through one of your best friends/band member.