You know how we all have that friend who gives pretty good dating advice and has always been single? Yeah well that's me and I probs need to find a friend who can do the same for me in like 25 years XD

But this aint le point haha

So heres the story.

My bestfriends and I were on this group chat on messenger (and itz still going only im not participating much in it anymore) so one of them likes this guy and asked us whether she should talk to him or not, I for one felt like she shouldn’t start the convo since she did it last time but when I asked her whether or not she wanted to make it slightly obvious or maintain the low profileness she decided to take the chance and make it kinda obvious. Hence, she started the convo.

Only… it didn’t work out as well as last times. The guy was already playing a game and yano how some guys rather play a game than to talk to a girl? Well yeah. He's THAT type of guy. So pretty much the convo was getting no-where and she's getting seen-zoned and she already kinda embarrassed herself and did all the things she asked whether she should do or not, she already did it and it was practically pointless. Anyway after a while I decided to speak up and be honest with her saying that I personally think the guy doesnt want to talk right now and should maybe say something along with the lines "Oh, it seems like you're really busy with your game right now so im just going to go..." *le hintu hintu, etc*

And my 2 other friends supported my idea but then my best friend started having doubts and was going to do that and then BAM! Out of no-where our other friend came from talking to her boyfriend and started joining in, so after a while i told her to maybe like back off a bit cos this guy clearly doesnt want to talk right now but then the other 3 intercepted and told me not to be so negative before i could fully explain myself why which clearly kinda annoyed me a tad bit cos 1) I never interupt them when they havent finished their sentences yet, 2) u asked for my personal opinion and im giving to u and i always speak my mind, 3) who was the kind soul who wiped away every single one of their tears when they had the same problems if not worse when it came to relationship issues? And didnt even complain. 

Imma just saying... and here they all are saying that I shouldnt be saying stuff or giving advice cos i never had "experience."

And okay..

Okayy...

okaaayyy.....

Im sorry, that im still single? Im sorry that i never had an actual boyfriend or anything and Im sorry i gave u lousy advice, but come on! Really?! Realllly???!!! Cos if that's the case shouldnt u be cutting me some slack cos im a total noob and dont know anything? Shouldnt i NOT be in this group chat since im the only "un-experienced" one?

So yeah my other friend kinda took over and "saved" the day which is cool and funny at the same time cos I was going to say the exact same things which she said (and that I told her 5 months ago) but meh, at least my advice was that great that she could repeat it again right?

I know i may seem like really petty about this and some of u are laughing right now (but please go ahead and laugh :) cos im laughing at myself too XD) but im really tired and stressed out and also i guess i needed to vent out some of ma stress and slight annoyance from a lot of things and I guess this was the only thing that i feel comfortable about sharing right now...

Sorry i took ur time and ranted~ forgive me?

kay baiiiii