I know I was supposed to do an update yesterday or sometime this weekend... but I don't really feel up to it...

This week was homecoming week for us and it was amazing XD DAT SOPHOMORE PRIDE XD

But I had a runny nose all week, I kinda bsed all my hw every day because I couldn't concentrate, I have a sore throat, I'm behind on a bunch of hw, I'm sick, I lost my voice because I was screaming so much during the rally yesterday, I just finished the PSAT a few hours ago, and I have volunteering tomorrow... yah I'm kinda busy so I won't be doing an update this time, sorry... maybe next week? or whenever I have time? thank you so much to those of you who still stay with me...

okay now onto the more serious stuff

the following is pretty much what I posted on fb yesterday

I get that some k-elfs are upset about this because they've gotten his autograph and they've actually seen Sungmin in person and they feel betrayed. But this is taking it too far. Imagine what he must feel like right now. Betrayed, confused, depressed, conflicted. We all want our beloved Sungmin to be happy, don't we? He deserves to be happy, and if we continue this, then we don't have the right to call ourselves ELFs anymore. Please support Sungmin and his decisions because he can do whatever he wants... he does have a life of his own...

I honestly feel really bad for Sungmin... yes I get that the fans are upset, but that DOES NOT mean that they should be going around telling people that he should be kicked out of Super Junior or ripping up his photocards or just hating on him in general.  Sungmin is one of Super Junior's most valuable members, and no matter what he does, he DOES NOT deserve all this hate.  If I was Sungmin, I would be depressed to the point where I can't live with myself anymore.

To all those haters out there who want Sungmin out:

If you were in Sungmin's place, how would you feel?  He's already had emotional problems in the past because some of the fans thought that he was unimportant and that "he wasn't good enough" to be part of Super Junior.  Now, he's finally found happiness and he wants to get married, and the fans can't accept that.  No matter how much we all want this to be true, Super Junior can't marry all of us.  Sungmin can get married to whoever he wants, as long as he's happy with whoever he's getting married to.  In this case, Kim Sa-eun.  If they truly make each other happy, then fine.  I support both of them, even though Sungmin is one of my biases in Super Junior.  Please don't hate on Sungmin.

ok that was my rant... have to go do more hw now (what fun LOL) so byeee