This really needs to stop SungMin did nothing bad is wanting to be happy a sin? Is finding the love of your life a bad thing? Is wanting to marry that person something bad? Yes he is an idol but he is also a human begging that loves and does mistakes like us, he is not perfect because nobody is perfect. Yes it might had been to much to put his girlfriend's name on his autograph and he had his ring during promo and the photo shoot but your forgetting that Shindong also did the same when he was engage. He asked her to marry her throw the album and ELF bought it without a problem and he had his ring on during Hero and the Lotty free promo, but SungMin can't do the same? Also didn't we want then to date and get marry and have babies we even told EunHyuk that they were allow to date and to go and date? Remember? WE ARE THEIR EVER LASTING FRIENDS and they need us right now to support them no matter what. Wanting SungMin out is not a good thing why because if you guys remember HeeChul once said that if one of them left then they all left and do you want Super Junior to disband? Tell me do you want then to disband because WE THEIR FANS couldn't be happy for them? I UNDERSTAND that it hurts but what can we do but make peace with it and trust them in what ever decision they make. I was sad when I found out, and yes it broke my heart, but then I start to think about everything that they have gone throw, and how hard it is for them as idols to date and find that special someone. And then I realize that she made Min happy and that his happiness was all I want for him, so I made peace with his decision to get marry and now I wish him the best in his relationship. Now I'm not sure of this is true but going as far as to THREATEN the other members and other ELFs into singing a petition to get SungMin kick out with reviling who was in a relationship just hurts me, and not o,ly that but to cut your self and blaming Sungmin for it is just going too far. The members are apologizing to us because they know that we are heart broken but it hurts me to see them apologizing when they don't need to apologize for anything not even Sungmin. And all those mean comments that are calling him names and trash can you guys STOP don't you see that your not only hurting him but also the rest of the members. Your showing them that we are a much of selfish people because don't want them to be happy. Is that what you want them to think? Because I don't I want them to see us as their support and their friends. I AM SORRY IF THIS IS HURTING ANYONE OF YOUR GUYS FEELINGS BUT PLEASE STOP I BEG YOU. I'm crying right now because this whole situation is hurting me I want my family th be one again. Can you guys ELF come back together and support them and show them that we are still here for them? I just want my family to be together...Super Junior and ELF are my family....can they be one again...please...i want that united family back...ㅠ.ㅠㅠ.ㅠㅠ.ㅠㅠ.ㅠㅠ.ㅠㅠ.ㅠ