Fandom on fire

I’m just a fan, nothing more. But it’s time I say my two cents about all of this drama.

We love Sungmin, and all of us know that he is a private person. Now I do agree that he made the announcement at a bad time. SM having all these scandals, these bands having people leave. ELF’s need to stick together more than ever right now.

Sungmin and his fiance have been dating a while and I’m very happy he is getting married and not becoming like Heechul dating 14 yr old anime characters.

I won’t the boys to marry and have kids. Even Ryeowook, my bias. The boys have been telling us they want to date, they want to live in their personal lives. We are just fans, we are family. Would you not be happy for your brother or cousin if they married? Why can it not be the same for the boys?

I’m very pleased with the way C-ELFs and international ELF’s have handled things and shown their happiness. We all know that Sungmin would do anything to keep from hurting people, he holds everything in. So when he made the announcement, he hoped for joy he could share with us, his fans, his family. Yet some felt betrayed and everything.

Now the boys are apologizing, people are talking about a black ocean. The boys can’t be treated like this. They have stood by us when no one else did, we stood by them when no one else would.

We can’t lose another because to lose one is to lose them all. We are ELF, ever lasting friends. But right now, we are the worst of friends. We have become the kids in school who backstab their best friends. I’m afraid that this fandom, has become.....

A FANDOM ON FIRE.

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nicky4official #1 Oct 17, 2014 07:36:17

I only love SJ so I'm hoping the best for SJ... ^^

leeleeloveskpop #2 Oct 17, 2014 03:04:16

I agree I support the boys happiness on and off stage

fishy_haehae91 #3 Oct 17, 2014 02:18:45

I totally agree with you about Elf need to be unite more than ever right now
But why the one which make things more chaotic is Elf?
My timeline in twitter get prettt hectic about the war going on since Sungmin's annoucement
Please people, cant u see that Suju needs us more right now
I simply out of comment with the certain Elf wanting Sungmin out of the group

Sparrownat97 #4 Oct 16, 2014 19:59:46

Those poor boys. I hope that they will never have to deal with a black ocean ever again like they did for the m-only members.

Gyaaaa #5 Oct 16, 2014 19:29:14

Very well said... Infeel pity for them, apologizing and blamed for nothing but want to get live their life... *sigh*

turyka #6 Oct 16, 2014 19:12:44

Seriously, Let them have a life.. If they announce since the beginning that they have a relationship, stans and the media would make their life a living hell.. Yes, he didn't manage timing the best way and may've done some mistakes to kfans but I think it ain't only his fault he has managers and a label(SM known for their bad doings) that manage what he can and can't do. Being in one of the top groups must be very difficult..
What kfans want to do is over the top.. No matter what SUJU will always be 15 ..
I think a better apology and the support of his band will be the best way to calm the girl.
lets just wish them happiness ⌒.⌒

liatkyu #7 Oct 16, 2014 15:35:00

even though i'm mad at him(the timing was so bad), "sungminOUT" and "black ocean" is too much :\