I have been an EverLasting Friend since 2008. For the past six years, I have loved all fifteen boys through thick and thin. I might not be as active as before due to school, but I still love them wholeheartedly. I want nothing but the best and ONLY the best for them. I want them to feel joy, wonder, love, and all of the good emotions. I don't necessarily want them to feel pain, but pain is inevitable in life. From pain and challenging circumstances, they will learn.  I want them to grow as individuals and as a group. They are men, but I still look at them and call them my babies. I am way younger, but it's so weird that  I've watched them grown. I feel like a mother sometimes. I am sure that by this time, it has spread online that Sungmin is to wed his girlfriend Kim SaEun on December. It might be suspicious since it seems fast because their relationship was barely made public. I am not judging him or his girlfriend, because we do not fully know the situation. Even if we did know everything, I wouldn't think any less of them. Nonetheless, relationships are something we shouldn't even be meddling with. A romantic relationship is between TWO people and TWO people only. Outsiders should not in any way mess with the balance of things. 

I understand that there are ELFs that are deeply affected by it. In a not so happy way. When I first read it, I wasn't shocked. The boys are all grown up. They are bound to be in relationship and one day marry. It is inevitable. Now, I am reading in twitter that ELFs are fighting. I am not going to go into details because I might just start crying. We should not be fighting at a time like this when the boys need us the most. We need to prove our loyalty. We need to prove our love.