I know how painful it is to hear all the news about the girls, our girls to be exact, but let's open our minds and don't let our emotions  clouded our judgments. 

First, snsd has been through a lot. Many says they are all fake. Why because of just what we read nor hear? No one knows the truth except them. Why they're not talking? Being an idol means setting yourself aside. Fans are devoting their selves to their idols. And like what most people said, idols can't be where they are now without the fans, if that's the case,  do you think it's easy to just blurt and say the truth? No, there are lots of things to consider like for example idols might ask, "if their fans can handle the truth?" Or they're protecting someone. Just want to point out, there are lot of things to consider before they should open their mouth.

Taeyeon's relationship,  why sm didn't let her talk? For what? The pictures tell everything and if she talk, do you think the journalist or paparazzi will just ask simple question? NO, they will dig deeper which will make everything worst. In an adult world there are things that needs to be kept for yourself or for the others sake.

Now, let's go back. bunch of rumors been out. SM, I ask myself,  why would SM ruin their best assets? If they are money monster like people says so what's the point or their reasons to break the group that gives them a lot of money? Ok, Jessica is having her own company which SM won't get even a penny from it but Jessica is still with group which SM can still benefits.it doesn't make sense at all.

A few compare Jessica to Beyonce, nicky, ect. I can't see the connection. Beyonce, nicky are solo artist, just set aside the culture. Beyonce has a business, family and can still go on with her world tours. Of course she can do it, she owns her time, though she needs to rehearse but she's alone, no need to think about anything else but herself unlike Jessica,  she has 8 members with her which she need to cooperate. Jessica doesn't own her time. Why do you think western people girl or boy bands didn't last?  Mostly because they are more on thinking for themselves rather than a group. Koreans are good in groups coz they are managed by a company that keep them together which gives each other time to know each one of them. So even though they all said snsd bond is fake? They won't last that long if it is fake.

Our girls are grown ups now,  they have their own plans for themselves. Jessica is one of them. We all know they won't last forever,  they will eventually go on with their own ways. Honestly,  having a company is not easy especially if it just started. In the real world you can't have everything you wanted that's why we have to choose and sacrifice the things we thought that needs to let go. Jessica can do everything if, IF the other members is willing to sacrifice and able to stretch their patince as far ad they can. Jessica might not miss any event but where she able to rehearse with the others? will she have time to go back and forth for practice?  Will her body can handle it?

This decision wasn't made lightly, I bet this was been meticulously handled, coz Jessica is one of the most famous member in this group and kicking her out is clearly not a right option. So what is the mean reason?  Asking the members to speak up like it just a simple question to answer, isn't a good idea. But, what Jessica did,for me personally, isn't right at all. Even though she's just trying to explain her side, she might overlooked the bad effect she just inflected on t

he other members image coz of anger, sadness and disappointments. Family, sisters always argue, that's a fact but hopefully like what always happen in the family misunderstanding,  I hope they can patch it out and went back to what they used to be. I hope even though we only have a thin as a thread like chance.

 I read an article about the hong Kong incident where the paparazzi thought it was yoona and taeyeon who fail in a dumpster where in fact some witnesses said it was Jessica and Tyler's cousin, with pictures that could serve as an evidence.  If it's true why do you think yoona and taeyeon didn't clear their names when yoona was been harrass by paparazzi when they come in hong kong? They didnt, so why people assume now that the other members silence means they are guilty? silence doesn't always means a yes.

All in all. I just want to say, instead of spreading rumors and hatred, our girls need us. The truth will eventually come out soon, so for now it would be better if we keep out mouth shut, calm ourselves,  empty our minds and just pray for them. For me there's a big reason why this all happened. So we'll just wait and trust them again.

Sorry about the little words I'm just using my tablet..