Let it go (no seriously) just chill out and yea , if he finally wants to talk to you then he'll message you. Don't message him first or something cause it will make you seem desperate af (no offence ) just chhiiiiilllll like an ice cube and MOVE THE HELL ON. It's hard (that's what she said) no but seriously y'all gotta move on and just forget about him even if its going to be hella hella hard (OMG that's what she said BYAHAHAH) no seriously . Just stop messaging him and don't even pay attention to him being offline or not cause the more you look , the more you ain't gonna be able to forget about hiiiiim *^^^^^^*
Ok bye
See you in like 9 hours HA

Sometimes growing up mean letting go and moving on, but if was a TRUE FRIEND *singsHannahMontana* then he wouldn't have let or ignored you messages and you also wouldn't feel as if your messages are bothers. . . .
People grow up and Friends leave, but TRUE Friends stay with you til the end. . . .sorry that was quote from "True Friend" by Hannah Montana aka Young Miley Cyrus. . . .#1998_Baby ♡♡

I used to have these friends, and we used to be inseparable. Nowadays, we never even say hi on emails, but I guess it's just a case of moving on. It's alright if you're feeling that way, you'll get used to it eventually.

My case doesn't really involve actual close friends but just people i want to talk to in general. I feel like im being a nuisance just by dropping a simple hi on their wall or in their ask on tumblr. Especially certain authors i look up to on here. I just feel like im leeching on people and being too clingy because i respect them and consider them superior. usually it's when i feel like im just being ignored that want to feel like i'm respected and that im loved so i try to talk to someone so that their attention is on me for awhile.

i hope that doesn't make me look bad...ㅜㅜ

honestly i know telling you to talk to him about it is a bad idea (bc for starters i would be scared out of my mind to do that , you have guts if you do it), but i think it'd be the best option other than moving on...

I still have a friend like that, we chat all the time and nowadays It's 2 sentences every week, I dunno what happen, but I have to understand that person has a life too, they can't always be talking to you on the phone, especially If they're busy, I know It's sad because I wish I an talk to my friend like I did before but time flies and people change as well as their lives, you kinda just have to move on yeah..It's sad but what can you do. Live your life, as well as that person Is getting on with theirs.

i understand how you feel.
there was this girl i know but then it seemed like i didnt know her anymore.
i always see her name in my skype contact list and i always wonder whether to call or not.
sighs... im in the same situation

you made me cry. otl ;~;

but i feel you. //le sighs// i too had a friend like that...
like whitechocolate and also you, i too once had a crush on the opposite gender (we were childhood friends for 8 years) and uhm... yeah.
when i had found out that my crush was one-sided and that he also found another girl he liked, we drifted apart.
eventually, fate had told me that there was no such thing as 'us'.
yes, my heart had hurt at first, but then i realized that it made me happy to see him happy (they are dating), even though he had always avoided my text and calls.
though there might not be anyone exactly like him, there are plenty fishes in the sea that are very kind and sweet and have a similar personality like him. even though i was hurt by my first crush, i moved on. i have friends that have been through the same situation like me... like you and we decided to make a club.
le club. you're invited~ //winkue wikue

just kidding,but hopefully you my dear will soon feel better and find that special someone that you can talk to your feelings about and fall in love with him like you did to... him. and eventually you guys would be together and get married and make babies, and oh. dont forget to invite me to your wedding c: otl that just sounded creepy. o u o sorry, notsorry.

also i'm not good at comforting and talking to people, the only thing i can do is give a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on so sorry if i didn't even cheer you up one bit ; n ;

Aww :(
Cheer up. Try talking to him face-to-face, that might be more helpful because you can see his reactions. Be genuine and find a time suitable to both. I think online or texting might make it easy to misinterpret messages and the tone and everything so... yeah. I had a close friend before. He was my sunbae. I had a crush on him before (but now it's admiration and just a longing to see his face whom I haven't seen in 2 years). We drifted very far apart now since he finished school, goes to University, has a girlfriend, more busy than before... and not just that but probably it's because I knew it was best to drift apart from him. Having close friends from the opposite gender and regular communication means there is a very high chance of falling in love with that person and that's what happened to me. He did like me before but for a very short time before he likes another girl and since one of his best friends liked me... yeah. It's such a complicated story but that's just the main gist of it all.

So sometimes, if it doesn't work out after trying to save the friendship, it might be better to split pathways...

I don't know. I do miss him very much but with our different lifestyles and pathways, I highly doubt we would cross paths and become like before... :)

It's okay. I felt like that last year. It was like we were so close one minute, and then the next she was like ignoring all my messages. But you'll get over it

Hey.. Cheer up babe~!! <3