Baekhyun and Taeyeon Confirmed Dating

I really have mixed feelings about this.

I don't know what to feel.

Taeyeon's my bias in SNSD and I really like her very much for her talent and I don't mind if she dates.

The Baekhyun part was the part I had confused feelings.

I know I should be happy for them but this happening changed my image of the whole EXO. I have hesitations of shipping any member to any member now since I don't see them as gays like all of us shippers do. I have always thought that Baekhyun is the most, if not, one of the most feminine member in the group and I had no problems imagining him in stories as a gay person, whether it may be the steriotypical diva personality, the sweet one and etcetera but now I can't see him any more in that light and I feel like he is manly and serious in person and maybe the fanservice and all of the gay thing in EXO was just an act and they're just friends. I starting to have problems in shipping EXO members. I think that they are not the people we imagined them to be, like all of the way they act in public was controlled and just a facade of what they really are. This was like a hard slap by the reality.

I know it is irrational for me to think this way but I can't help it. Reading stories about them was one of my best ecape and refuge in this stressing life and suddenly removing me of this priveledge is just making me feel a uncomplete.

All I can do now is somewhat be happy for them but honestly, I can't give them my full support right now. It may take me some time to get adjusted in this new setting. I'm starting to worry about the continous change in EXO's image. First, Kris's lawsuit and now this. I feel like this is just the tip of the iceberg and more secrets that will shock us will come later.

Any opinions?

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applegreentea
#1
i am happy for the couple? (im not really baekhyun-biased nor taeyeon-biased)
am sad that there are more negative comments on them.

i think DISPATCH said that there are two more exo members dating and that they will release it soon. so yes, brace yourself for there will be more.
RememberZiah
#2
Of course they're not the people you imagine them to be. An image is just that. AN IMAGE. Why do you think kpop people focus so much on always mentioning they're image they're not just saying that. Its to put in your head that they have a concept that they stick FOR THE PUBLIC. They're lives are different matter.