Rant: When is too much?

 

So I've got this friend, who used to be my best friend. She was someone I could talk to kpop about and I loved it! To be honest, I loved it. I was glad she got into kpop and that she was my best friend.

But in our relationship, thats the problem: she likes kpop. She's obsessed with kpop. Since I haven't told you guys yet, we are not friends anymore. She doesn't bother talking to me and even if i try talking to her, she ignores me. Well the only reason why we talk is about kpop. The only thing we can talk about it kpop, or we don't talk at all. It's really making me depressed.

She gets upset when I don't invite her places. That is understandable, but I do have other friends. I don't have to invite her everywhere I go. And also the problem with her is that when I try to introduce her to my friends so we can have the same friends, she doesn't make an effort to even talk to them. It's always awkward when she's there cause then she doesn't even talk to anyone. She only talks to me. And I would feel bad because I feel like I'm leaving her out when I'm talking to my other friends. For example, we had some foreign exhange students who stayed at our school for 10 days. My friends and I planned a party for them and my best friend was there cause she was hosting one of the exchange students. Well throughout the whole time we were there, she talked to no one. While everyone was dancing and having a great time, she sat on the couch, looking depressed. Like really? Can't you just have fun for once? It's so frustrating!

And so she's just recently changed her bias from Tao to Baekhyun. Now, she's really really reallllly liked Tao for a long time! And then she just recently changed it to Baekhyun, who is also my sister's bias. Yesterday, my cousin was texting with my friend and guess what she said...

While they were chatting, my cousin found out that she likes Baekhyun. So she just told my friend that my sister likes Baekhyun. She. Freaking. Threatened. My. Sister. She said that she would kill her because Baekhyun is now her bias. I'm sorry but you cannot do that. And after that she said, "Well, I'll let her like him cause it's just a little crush". That was really offending to me. First you just that you were going to kill my sister now you give her permission to like her bias... when she liked Baekhyun first. Really. I don't think that's what you call a fan. Not only has she said she was going to kill my sister for liking her bias, but she says this about everyone! Every GIRL who is around their bias, she says shes going to kill them

I can understand that you would be upset, but there really is no need to say you are going to kill them. That made me really disappointed.

What do you guys think? She is going a little overboard or a lot overboard? and I need some advice for this!

Sorry for the small font, I'll fix it later since I'm on my tablet :/

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ShylaR #1
I feel like she's gonna turn into one of those sasaeng fans. Maybe you should sit her down and talk about it? Idk I'm not very good with this but if she still doesn't get it just leave her be cuz she's acting like a .
kizunayoora
#2
omo. sorry for you. i'm also facing the same thing. glad that she's nor my best friend , only just someone i knew from my best friend. we talked a lot about kpop and all. at first i thought, ohh, she' also have the same interest with me. but then when we talked about our bias, she's and mine are same which is luhan. suddenly she's making annoyed face. at that time, i felt really guilty for having luhan as my bias. she then said that i'm not on the luhan dream girl list. fine, i know that i'm not that tall with pretty face, but what's wong for me to make him my bias. now, i don't even have the ultimate bias, this kind of person(she) making me terrified to talk about bias TT.TT
dongho
#3
... Your friend sounds like one of my classmates from my class last year. My classmate really likes Luhan, and she knew I like Luhan as well, so she hates me because of that and she always goes, "Luhan is mine." I remember once she said, "Do you think Luhan would even like you?" Okay, she's very pretty and she's one of those delusional fans that thinks she can end up with her bias, but I'm not! I may spend alot of money on EXO and attend EXO events alot, but I haven't even thought once about ending up with Luhan lol. I have no idea why she'd think that... I think people like my classmate as well as your friend are overly obsessed with their bias. Like, they need to face the fact that they'll never end up with their bias.
mangaxkpop
#4
A lot overboard. I admit I'm crazy. But compared to other fans (the other crazy ones), I'm sane. I'm more normal than them, lol.
Maybe it'll get better as time goes by?
rukehna #5
people now a day are crazy, i think that include me lol JK