The start of 2014 was a boom for all of us Sones. Our girls' dating issues/confirmations are being released one by one.

I know it hurts especially for those fans that has their biases on the news. But guys, let us not attach ourselves too much on them like our whole world only revolves around them. I'm not saying that you quit loving SNSD or something like that. Please don't misunderstand me.

What I'm trying to tell you is that we need to balance our fan life and social life. SNSD will be SNSD and fans will be fans. They've got their private life and we got ours too.

Does SNSD or our biases cry or get mad at us when we got our boy/girlfriends or crushes from other kpop groups? Of course not.

Sometimes we should accept the reality that we can only watch them, cheer them and love them from afar. For me, it doesn't matter even if SNSD doesn't know me because I STILL KNOW THEM. But I won't say that I never even once dreamed that I may meet them someday, be friends with them and get closer with them. I've daydreamed of that millions of times.

But there are also some times when I withdraw myself from SNSD. I take a break by watching other kpop groups or doing some other things in life, especially when I think that I'm thinking too much about them. If I don't do this, I'll end up getting too obsessed with them where it comes to the point that they start ruining my life.

That's the reason why there are sasaeng fans who follows their idols even within their private life. There are also some who hurts theirselves by cutting their flesh just to show their love for their idols. It's both creepy, shocking and sad to see things like that, right? We shouldn't get into that point. We should love ourselves too.

It's alright to cry because of them but not all the time. Yes it hurts but we should learn to accept it.

So, cheer up! ^_^ I'm sure we all have our family and friends or loved ones that we can  go out or spend our time with. Let's make our idols our inspiration, not a life ruiner. lol. We all have a life. We also have other things to do in life. We should balance it.

That's all. I hope you don't get me wrong.