Clarifying things about DaraHae (Donghae and Dara)

The objective of his post is to clarify some things about DaraHae. The deluded shippers believe what they want after that. 

It's ok if you ship two people together because you think they are cute together (even further if they are both your bias), what is not so ok is invent some "s" to make it seem like they like each other just to feed your ship =.= The idea is to ship just because it's fun but be careful not to mislead people.

I'll give some examples of I've ever seen:

- Say that Thunder (Dara's brother) said in an interview that Hae was courting Dara (even if Donghae was, you think that Thunder would say such a thing in an interview? Dude, idols dating someone is like a taboo in korea = . =)

- Say that Hae was in Big Bang´s concert just to see Dara (who had come to see the concert), when BabyHae was not even in the country at that time. (if wasnt a concert was something similar, but I remember that Hae wasnt in Korea at that time.)

- Relative about messages exchanged between them on twitter, I regret to inform but a man and a woman can be friends without second intentions. I really dont understand when a man and a woman talk to each other or have a meeting, why  people just automatically think they are interested in each other and that they are dating?

Stop trying to see coded messages in everywhere. Like, she tweeted, "Do you love me?" because it was the title of 2ne1´s song that were promoting at the time. And Donghae tweeted "I Do… Thank you Thai ELF!" due to the project that Thai fans make because of Suju´s song "Marry U".

  

In relation to the photo above, I read this in a comment from someone on allkpop

"…. actually the girl he was talking about in strong heart was introduced to him by TVXQ Yunho, he asked Yunho for her number and he gave him and they start to know each other… but the girl betrayed him because she was dating a guy who was studying abroad and if her boyfriend will come she will go hang out with him and stop contacting donghae if he goes back to studying she would contact him again. donghae knew what was happening, and he still likes her.. when she was getting ready for college entrance exams, he would bring her thermos bottles and fruit, at the end the girl was tired of his 2-year crush on her, she told him 'You can go now' and she wanted them to separate. After 3 months of their separate she called him crying and she told him how she remembers how well donghae treated her and wanted to meet him again donghae said in that moment he wanted to be a bad guy.. because he was thinking that women like bad guys since he have been continuously dumped by women, he thought of becoming a bad boy. donghae said he have expressed his unrequited love with her for 2 years, but she never received his love. he was so worn out. he spent his days with the lights off hating the world. Soon, she called and told him she missed how well he treated her and wanted to start a relationship with him." and he said yes… he wanted to be like her  he wanted to treat her like she did with him.. he wanted to treat her badly  so he date her fo a moth. and the nickname "man number three" which the SJ members was calling him during WGM was because he appear on a show name "Star Affection Village" .

 

quoted from REOKIKO 

Edit: if you don´t believe, you guys can also see/read a old news from allkpop: Donghae reveals the story of his past crush on 'Strong Heart'

 

So this girl is a with a big B. Believe me, you dont want this story to be about Dara.

Go see for yourselves the episode where Hae appear and draw your own conclusions. 

I've seen people in that post saying that "it just for fun"

But what's the point now if you guys only clarifies it after a lot of ingenuous fans who believe everything that appears on the Internet without question, have already read that and have created a whole story in their heads of how Donghae and Dara are dating and will marry and have a lot of babies.

- Same with D&E's song "10 years"

As you can see in this post Donghae didnt write this song so stop deceiving people by saying that he wrote and that music is for Dara.

- And DH (initials which he put in the text with the photo) means DongHae, not DaraHae.

- And finally: because of Suju M´s comeback i also seen people comment that they expected that Suju-M and 2NE1 promote together for there to be DaraHae´s interaction. 

But you guys are really Super Junior and Donghae´s fans? Like, isnt Super Junior´s comeback, but is their sub-group, Super Junior-M (Mandarin), that mean, that comeback is happening in China/Taiwan,… Has no way 2ne1 and super junior m promote and interact because they are in different countries lol

Okay all right. Past few days it was confirmed that SUJU-M would also was going promote the song in Korea but I've seen people saying this before they have even confirmed that there would be promotions in Korea. And I was like: WTF?!

 

And For God, they just take a picture together. How does that prove that they are dating? 

To me they are just friends. I don't understand. 

Don't you guys take pictures with your friends? If you take, this makes you guys are dating each other?

 

To me it is ok ship them but please limit yourself to the truth to not mislead some innocent fans who believe in everything they read on the Internet without questioning anything ;-) 

Think a bit on things and in their consequences before you post this like that (and especially try to max that you can confirm the facts). The objective is to try not to induce people into error ;-)

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kapoyani #1
True enough. Okay with passive oh they look good together as friends or whatever. But making up or tagging everything together just feels ridiculous and may block those idols or whoever from developing relationships be it friends or more.
jezzila21
#2
Actually, i am a "so-so" darahae fan as of the moment, yeah..stop misleading the innocent fans. I sometimes have a thought of dara and hae secretly dating but my thoughts were crushed because i saw that yoona were once dated by hae and so i started to search the truth (?). i am so fed up about the darahae misleading concepts. I contemplated about it and i came up about supporting them individually. I just like hae beacause he is friends with dara, i am a dara fan. And now, i just support whatever thing they will do in the future. I dont care now if they are or will end up together, i am just contented that dara is enjoying what is happening to her career or in her life. And to hae, may you have a good life. Haha.. seriously, God bless to both of them.
shiningshawol13
#3
I totally agree with you. Haha I mean, creating things up just for the sake of strengthening the shippers' claim that their ship is real is going a bit too far. It makes you look real desperate and delulu.
And peole should learn a thing or two about the idols first haha.
I don't mind it if there are real and believable proofs of one ship. Like for example, in YoonHae's case (I'm a YoonHae shipper hehe and I don't mean to cause any ship war here but I'm just going to use this as an example), his ideal type and stuff like that matches Yoona perfectly (even soshi said something about an attribute of Yoona that just affirmed one trait of Hae's ideal type), and incidences like Hae being able to guess Yoona's identity just from her legs, their backstage hug, and their close proximity in some pictures (like, head to head and almost cheek to cheek) are enough to cast suspicion.
I admit, some speculation and all are fun but when you get too far, well... Mehhhh haha.
jetpitchblack #4
thanks... i think the time line is the biggest give away that it was not really dara... i dont think that dara will play on anyone's heart because his x-bf from the phil cheated on her...she knows the feeling of being cheated at... =)
AngelaMiina
#5
Eventhough I just found this blogpost now...can I marry it? So in love with this post now :)
parneet #6
Thank you so much...... I was saw all the articles...and wanted to know the truth......thnku sooo much !!
sweet_marmalade
#7
Just let them feels get them. -_-
eunhaecupcake
#8
As a person who is one of the oldest DaraHae Royals on here.... I actually agree with you on this WHOLE post. It annoys me when they're making up all these things and not fully looking into anything. I wanted to punch them in the face half the time on the snowman one. OTL. The only thing the Guy #3 thing for Dara was to prove Donghae was the type to actually stay out in the cold being the dummy fish we all know him to be. But that's about it. Unfortunately... Daralings will try to make it going "OMG DONGHAE MADE IT FOR DARA" -_- There's no proof on whether Donghae was the guy Seungri was talking about but... really no one really gets the point that the reason Hannah (the one that made the observation for Donghae is like that to actually stay out in the cold like that also known as DaraHaeLover03 on here and Donghae_Sandara on twitter) but people don't get that the point was really just to show Donghae could possibly be the guy that stayed in the cold. We'll never know. But of course they jump to conclusions. -sighs- Daralings who ship DaraHae should really learn things about Donghae in general.
wiwis2NE1 #9
aren't all shippers delulus ??? and sometimes they are not by the way . I really don't get what annoys the other about believing something I mean let them spaaaze freely y are other ruining it for them . I don't have an OTP I just like to read good fanfics ( seriously daragon fanfics are the best ) I don't ship them together but I hate it when people hate on their shippers just let them believe what they want DA