Is it my fault???? ;(

GUYS I need your help, I need advise - it's about my friends.

So today I and two of my friends had to go to school even thought we have the weekend off - we went we had this kind of an extra lessons for our language we learn - the thing is that after we finished our school project they wanted to go for a coffee, but I didn't want to go, yet they insisted. 

I was a little angry at them, because they didn't know when to stop. I had said that I wanted to go home, eat and rest but my BFF had to add that I was talking loud and that she just asked one time not millions. And I just shut my mouth and then the other girl asked me why I'm not talking and i just said that I don't want to talk since I was talking loud - i felt like being the one at fault.

I said my goodbyes and left, of course they think it is my fault, i think. 

So I want to ask is it my fault that I didn't want to go with them?? I'm curious what do you think.

 

 

 

I feel like crying now.......

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Curlyhair259 #1
Aww don't cry. I have feelings like this all the time you regret something you've done and start blaming yourself where as it isn't your fault. And it's not.

You're definitely not at fault. If you don't wanna go you don't wanna go. Your friend ds will not dislike you or hold any grudges against you for that (unless they are stupidly childish).

You sound like too nice of a person. You shouldn't let little things get to you, I get told this all the time. Things will sort themselves out :) don't worry :)
guadalupeanguiano #2
It wasn't your fault. Sometimes we just don't feel like hanging out and we all need to respect our opinions and those of others
miku-chan #3
its not your fault, they were being pushy
no means no and they should respect that and if they dont then i guess they arent really your friends
about the loud talking part, well idk, maybe you were talking loud maybe you werent but its understandable since you were pissed so dont put it to heart
dont cry for people that dont deserve it
NEALfanfiction #4
of course it is not your fault . at all . things i learned from life ; we all are different . our choices ; our opinion ; our thinking way ; and even our own self . as a friend ; we should respect our friend's decision . but at least try to not offending them ; talk nicely . but it is okay if you yell at them if they are way too much .
shining_writer #5
It's okay if you don't want to go with them. It's your choice, really. After trying to hang out with people I realized that their opinions doesn't matter. We do whatever we want, don't be afraid of offending them. Of course, you must communicate with them and know if your actions may hurt them.
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