Bias Problems!

"Should I like him or not? Should I just hate him? The more I distance myself from him, the more I yearn for him. For the sake of my friend, should I just forget about him? My mind tells me not like him, but my heart refuses. Who should I listen to? If I like him, I lose a friend. However, if I forget about him, my heart shall remain in a cage, unable to be free."

Above is my friends thoughts that she sent me....

This is advice I am asking for my friend..

She really likes Jin from BTS, but when her best friend who is also a BIG Jin fan heard she was acting sulky and mad...

My friend doesnt know what to do.. cause she doesnt want to lose on of her best friends.. but she doesnt want to lie who her bias is.... and she is stuck...

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--bbclaudi
#1
A friendship based on not having the same bias isn't a real friendship, as well as a friendship breaking apart because of a person they like isn't one- if you allow me to judge. They both like Jin, yes, I do too but that doesn't mean one has to argue with another //good// friend about that. They're still just a fan in the end, and if she worries about losing a good friend, I empasize 'good', then that's pretty sad.
diversified
#2
they should both be happy that they both found and like such an awesome/really cute guy, and celebrate the fact that they like him =D

just my thoughts =)