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So like I've been crushing on this guy and we talk to eachother all the time, and today we had our first date and it went really well.

But I promised to call him because I didn't want to tell him no but I like have this phobia with phone calling. I refuse to talk to people on the phone it's weird ik. I hate awkward silences.

In person if theres an awkward silence it could eadily be solved by like teasing, play fighting, cuddling etc. But over the phone its harder and im SUPER SUPER awkward over the phone. &now he's mad at me that I broke my promise. Any advice guys?

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grace_here #1
if you won't be able to handle awkwardness, then there's just no way you could be with this guy. awkward moments are normal, sometimes it's cute and strangely invigorating but I'm not saying you have to be a huge blabbermouth that you have to talk every second (trust me, that's a HUGE turnoff), you could smile and all, just don't make him feel uncomfortable instead make him think that you're also nervous just like him :)
DancingDreams #2
Tell him that you are awkward on the phone and just nervous- if you get in well together I'm sure he'll be able to carry a conversation over the phone.
InfiniteVision #3
text him?
I can't talk to people on the phone because I'm not sure whose turn it is.
like I talk and then they interrupt me, but then they talk and I interrupt them. ._.
tell him that you're super awkward on the phone, lmfao.
LocketKay #4
OMG. I hate talking on the phone too! Like I can talk to a few family members and that's like it. I just hate talking on the phone and would rather do it in person.

Anyway, just explain the phobia to him and hopefully he will understand. Best of luck! :)
dojorockergirl #5
tell him that you have a phobia of talking on the phone. He may not believe you but make him. and if you aren't seriously considering being with him, let him know that. honesty may be your best way to go with this.
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