Love Advice

Wassup readers!
 

My name is Zayn and I'm 17. I'm currently in a relationship with a very sweet and cute boy. He's like D.O. He has such big eyes and he's ver squishy. So we dated each other when we were 14. And it's kinda hard especially when you're different from the society being gay and all. However I love him very much. We broke up because everyone looked at us distgustingly and the pressure got to us and recently got back together last year. He means a lot. We have been dating for a couple months now and our parents found out. We may be older but it's still tiring and I really hate them yelling and hurting him. I don't know what to do. I just want help so if you can please let me know what you think. Shouldn't I fight for him? Or should I give in because I don't know what to do. I can't go against them so,  I'm very confused. I would be very greatful for yout help. Thanks.

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rinmerin
#1
boo! ^^ soey for popped out of under rock in sudden. mehe~

i read in your profile that you're a muslim. i'm a muslim too.
and islam teach us to not fight against parents except if they tell us to do a sin, even if that so~ we still have to decline it with respect.

and second, do you know the story of sodom people from luth a.s?? our god gave them punishment becus they've been crossed the line for being a gay.
believe me, god wont give us a test more than our ability, and god now test you with this.
if you leave a sin for our god, believe me god will reward you more than what you could ask.

but then, the decision is in your hand. listen what your heart tells you ^^
absoluteperfection
#2
Hey,when you start loving someone, nomatter what you keep on loving that person when you start hating that someone you easily can forgive, when you feel you are loosing that love you can just die!!!! Cuz simply because love is too precious to deny. Hey zey no matter what occurs you should keep what you love the most very near you. Hold him tight, strenghten your bind more over. Don't let other take away what is precious to you. Life can be hard but it's yours to drive. So don't let him go!!!!!
rintaratata
#3
You should fight for him, for sure. You love him, right? Everybody know that no one can even break your feeling if you don't mean it by yourself. You may be tired of all they do to your boyfriend, but as long as you two still love eachother, no one could break you two up. Love isn't something that other people can control about. Whatever if you both are boys, as long as it's love that you two feel, why not? Don't give up. You must know and sure that you two are destined to be together.
Kwangie_5
#4
I'm gay too, and I have a boyfriend too, but it's only been six months and he was originally my best friend, he's a year older than me and taller too.

You're an open couple with him??? I respect you a lot because me and my boyfriend are still a secret(except my friends and parents). Hearing about this makes me want to be open.

Anyways, If you love someone, you don't have to worry about what other people think. If you show weakness, they won't stop bothering you. You should fight for him, I would be happy if my boyfriend stood up for me. Try to tell your parents how much you care about him, they're still your parents and they love you a lot.

And you boyfriend is like D.O.? He sounds cute so cute! I hope you will protect him well. I'll give all my luck!
Sammiwammi65 #5
Don't deal with this the way that characters do in fanfics where you go against your parents and such. Talk to them. I'm confused about why they are hurting him if he means the world to you. It seems as though you want everyone to be happy. So talk to your parents. Try to make them understand as to why you love this guy so much. I don't mean in the heat of an argument go and start yelling at them. Because that makes it worst. Sit them down when you feel the mood is a bit on the brighter and calm side. If you can make it sound very convincing without a lot of yelling, then that will really help. Before you actually start talking to them about you main topic, think of what you are going to say first. Write down what you are going. This way you will not rant and say something that was not meant to be said. In your situation I really do think you need to just sit down, and write what you want to say to them. You are 17. Sound mature. You want to show them that not only can your bf take care of you, but you can also. Show them that no matter all of the negative response you get, you 2 will love each other unconditionally. Also, before you start talking tell them that you really want them to listen. Ask them not to interrupt, and if they have anything to say to please just wait until you are finished talking. Because if they keep interrupting, you are going to have a hard time getting a message across to them. On top of that with immense interrupting (which I feel is going to happen) one party is going to get very overworked and angry. So try to stay calm the whole time. Again, if you get angry, it'll sound more like a childish rant rather than a mature talk with a son and his parents.
I wish you and your boyfriend the best of luck. I wanna see a pic of you 2 together. Because the way you describe him, he sounds like he's adorable.