Okay, so why do I have to put the kind of title in this blog? No, of course I am not going to get married or something anytime sooner. Its just happened that my colleagues are older than me and they are all in the process of thinking about MARRIAGE. Marriage, Holy Matrimony, Certificates license, signing and everything, my gee, what's up with the topic? Although I know I should learn about these things, but I don't give much effort on knowing the ways and the hassles of being a bride or being a wife. Well, maybe its safe to say that I am not into much, not even talking about having a lovelife.

No, I don't have a lovelife to share, because it ended before the year also ends. I mean, when you're in love and all you feel you can do everything. Surpass any high mountains and swm the widest ocean in the world, but in reality, its not like that. Its harder then swimming and climbing a mountain. When they have been talking about marriage, all I can do was to listen to them and look at their faces and its reactions to what one might say about it. They are quite open about that kind of fact, but I'm not. They asked me, "Do you destiny?", what did I answered? "No, but I do believe in love." Then they goes like, "If you do then why the two of you broke up?" Is there any necessary reason for two people breaking up without much of telling about the reason to each other? Sometimes, we just have to admit, fire dies even if you don't pushed a blow on it. So much to say that, when there's already a big fire, you don't have to put a gas on it to make it bigger.

When it comes to love and marriage, isn't it much valuable if you two understands each other more than love itself? I believe, if two people do love each other, they should carry along more tools to prevent its falling apart. Its like you have to have the tool box all around you to be able to fix what was once being loose. For me, when you get married of started to think about settling down you should have to give your TIME, PASSION, RESPECT and TRUST to that one special person.

Maybe I sounds too serious about this, but isn't it marriage is a serious matter? For me it is, so as to people and my friends, MARRIAGE should really be a serious matter. Why? Because you're talking about the person who's not related to you at all to live with you under the same roof, sleep with, be your partner to all your troubles and be the father/ mother of your children. So, I mean it, this thing should be taken really seriously, and with LOVE. ♥♥♥