Get over yourselves. Bashing someone for shipping something or having a certain bias isn't okay. Ships shouldn't be that serious. Maybe your logic is "If I can't have oppar/unnie's /vajayjay then only my bias can". Your bias ain't going to want to date you. It's logical that you won't get to be with them and you have to accept that. So let go a little and be ok with it when your bias is dating someone.

And your shipbashing-don't do it. I'm sure you'd love it if your OTP dated but your ship is in your imagination. Putting up signs saying "Eunhae/zikyung/wtf get married" is crossing the line. And let other people ship their ships because it isn't harming anyone. I ship TaoChen and you don't see me bashing on Xiuchen or Taoris. It's just ships. You shouldn't be wasting your life getting angry over small things because you won't be happy.

So fangirls take a reality check. If these idols start mattering more to you than anyone or anything else then it's time for a reality check. Wake the up and get on with your life.