My opinions? Harsh? Yes, but do I care? Not really. This is a PSA.

Just a PSA for you all (Oooh, I've never really done these before.), I have my own opinions, I sometimes put my foot in my mouth, but at the end of the day, I don't really care if I don't know you and I'm not friends with you. So for everyone that likes to comment and spend an hour worth of trying to prove me wrong, well, if I'm not friends with you, I don't care. I seriously don't, because if I did, I would be a lot worse off. 

Everyone that has spoken to me and knows me knows that I have a lot of opinions (most of them being stuff that people agree with) and that I'm slightly biased (sometimes, majorly so, but who isn't? Plus, blogging is my way of getting rid of my stress and sometimes, some of the I say isn't always the best thing to say. But if you follow me, most of you have realized that most of my blogs are rants about things I have problems with, whether it's with fandom or people in society when it comes to kpop. So do I have to sound like I have to be unbiased to make others feel better? Hell no. Sorry for everyone that stumbles along my blogs that don't know me and think I'm an ? Well, I don't really care. It's no hair off my back if you hate me, especially if you want to scold me for having my own opinions, especially ones that you want to fight me on. Especially when you comment hours/days after I posted my blog. By that time, I don't even care and I'm done ranting and I'm interested and involved with something else.), but really, do I have to be unbiased when I'm ranting? Do I have to sound like a freaking robot and try to understand every other fandom while I'm ranting? 

No. I don't. 

Because unlike some people who happen to love all of kpop, I only like a few groups and get defensive about them, because that's how I am. I immerse myself in a few fandoms and become a bit obsessive because I have an obsessive personality. Anything else is usually not met with the same enthusiasm. (And if anyone knows me, my groups are Infinite, EXO-M (I'm so biased it hurts sometimes, but I don't really care about the K babies that much, except Joonmyun and Sehun. And yeah, I may like some Jongdae/K pairings, but suchen is the only one that I really care about. ChenLay and SuChen are my two Jongdae pairings I love, while I really like Xiuhan too and a few other pairings, but really, I'm not a huge Baekyeol or Kaisoo shipper and probably will never be. So I don't really care about K as much as some people. And I'm not going to lie and say I care about them. Yeah, K may have their moments, but if I ever had to choose, you all should know who I would end up choosing.), BTS, and a few others here and there.

So for anyone that tries to talk to me about other groups, I'll listen and give my opinions, because I casually follow most groups, but when it comes to my favorite groups, then it's all 'hell hath no fury' type stuff and I don't really care if I ended up sticking a foot in my mouth. And really, most of my rants are done when I'm angry and for those that understand, most people will say stuff the don't really mean when they're angry or will say stuff the wrong way that will rub others the wrong way. But do I have to constantly worry about what I say so I don't make others feel bad all the time? 

Nope. I don't.

If you realize you don't like my blogs, don't read them. Simple as that. 

It's what I do. If I don't like someone's blog or think they're dumb, I just stop following them. Saves me a lot of grief and will save you a lot of grief too if you do the same thing. 

And really, the only time I don't get back to people when it comes to my blogs is because your comment is too short to really comment on, I forgot to comment on it, and if it isn't one of those too, it's usually I'm done with my rant and don't really care who comments anymore. So if it's the latter, just figure that I'm done ranting and making an of myself and know that I wasn't in the right state of mind during that time. 

Seriously, it's a lot easier on me and you if you realize that a lot of my posts are based off anger/stress at a certain situation rather than what my rational and calm mind really thinks. 

So if I end up hurting your feelings because I badmouthed your fandom or member or group you like, I'm sorry, but just know that most of the I say is not always rational and that most of my foot in mouth moments are because I'm angry and upset, rather than calm. 

But really, if you can't stand that, just don't follow me anymore and you'll be a-okay. 

TLDR: I apologize that I'm an , but if you want to be/stay my friend, you'll have to get over my ways and accept the fact that I have a temper that more or less makes me out to be the bad guy most times. But if you find me on a day where I'm not angry at anything, you'll realize I'm really cool (I like to think I'm a reasonable guy, but I slightly have a temper that needs a bit of work) and not as much of jerk as I make myself out to be in some of my blog posts. 

Peace out, y'all.

Comments

You must be logged in to comment
dream_keeper88
#1
Wah- O.o? Did I read the wrong post? The title mentioned Infinite, of course the focus is infinite! And not other groups... You didn't bad mouth exo or any other group. You even clarified it wasn't their fault. But what is this I see? Why are there too many other artists mentioned in the comments section of an infinite-centered post? Okay so maybe the shawols got hurt but come on, you already explained how you are infinite-biased. Why would you care about another fandom's feelings if you are still caught up in your own? So, a calm person wouldn't mention Shawols but you weren't calm then. At least I understood your rants. Most users here don't make sense at all with their rants ^^ And I like your unpopular opinions. They are lengthy and somewhat repetitive because you try to make people understand. But it turns out some didn't get it.
kpopartory
#2
It is your blog, and it is you who is speaking and saying what you wanted to say. It may be an opinion or a rant or news or what ever suits your fancy for that day. You have the right to say what you want to say.
I often give short comment, its the norm for me.
kanqwu
#3
I always like reading your opinions. It's always nice to hear other people's opinions and see how other people see...even if it's only the duration of a blog post. I mean, you don't go around blindly bashing people or anything like that, so I don't really see a problem. You can tell when you're angry and when you're not, so I think it shows clearly when your statements may not be the most tactful...I guess? Bah I'm not good with words.
Opinionated people are wonderful in their own ways, because they're strong willed with what they believe. And what people believe is what people believe. Your rants are always very detailed (much more coherent too than what I could ever produce from my head) and I find myself enjoying what you have to say...because sometimes it clashes with my own thoughts and I find myself thinking harder about things and analyzing other aspects.
I know I'm rambling, so I'm sorry, but I don't find anything wrong with your rants.
I hope everything's going well for you...maybe sunshine and blue skies where you are :3
Darthearts
#4
People think you're harsh? Wow. I don't know. I find your rants logical and in-depth. Your opinions are certainly quite valuable tbh. They make a lot of sense. I don't see why people think it's harsh.

I love your blog rants tbvh. They make me think about certain issues from another perspective.

lol you're not an . You're just a logical and reasonable person.
rocksolidpanda #5
As long as you stick by your opinions and have a legit reason for whatever you believe I don't give a flying what you say.
Plus your opinions are pretty well thought out even if I don't agree with them. Like I can respect even if I don't necessarily like it. I think that makes sense. XD
xiuminbaozi05
#6
Exo-M yeah!! Me too, I love exo M.

Have you been stressed out lately? :(

Btw, we sound similar. ^_^
StarlightSpirit
#7
I like your blogs - you're one of the very few people that are honest about your opinions but at the same time you actually structure arguments without just saying "This ." or "These guys are s." I appreciate that. In kpop fandoms, it's so easy to shoot around opinions with no structure or basis and I totally appreciate that you avoid this!