My Opinion about the Myungsoo/Doyeon Scandal

These are my opinions okay.

Let me feel the way I want to feel. 

 

So, I found out about the incident right when it came out. I am barely posting this now because this is the only time I had. I was on Facebook waiting for my friend to reply and my timeline refreshes and there it was.

Allkpop made two posts about it and I saw the first one that came out about it. When I read the first post which was undetailed, it didn't really sink into my head. I was just like wow is this real.

And then I finish reading the first one and the second one posted and thats when it hit me. It was mainly because the article was more detailed and thorough than the first one.

As soon as I was done reading the last sentence, I started to tear up and cry. Before I felt the emotion of what had happened, I unconsciously cried. 

OKAY. Lets get this straight. I am NOT Myungsoo/L biased and it hurt like hell. My bias is undetermined at the moment because of OGS. 

But as it sunk in, it really started to hurt. I texted Tori (aka -MyungKitty-) and cried with her, omfg. And then I went on twitter and saw some tweets and some of them made me feel really decieved because they were true.

Like how Myungsoo was the one who said that we shouldn't cheat on him or else he'll find us. 

He was the one who said this stuff. He didn't HAVE to say any of this stuff. He could have kept his mouth shut and not lie to us, but he didn't. He told us these decietful words and it hurts. Like, yes, I love how he wanted to tell us, but Woollim wouldn't allow him to. That part I feel like Myungsoo was really sweet, since it had also been 4 months with this girl at the time. But, he didn't have to lie to us. Sure, him saying he's single and stuff like that is also lying. But him getting our hopes up like that, that hurts.

And no, I am not one of the girls who is like "Oppa is mine don't touch!!!!!!!!!!" I respect him and I think he should date whoever he feels like, but its just that my trust is broken and that is the pain I feel. Myungsoo can date this girl or any other girl, he has my wishes for it, but I just don't want him or any of the other members to lie, because that will hurt me even more. I hate being lied to. 

And in all honesty, I think he deserves better. He is such a sweet and charming and handsome man, who seems really caring. She, on the other hand, seems so fake (my opinion tbh) and how she tries to become famous through him, like lets not forget that she did the same with GD. I would honestly like someone else for him, but if he loves her then love is love y'know?

But yes, she has every right to be mad at Inspirits. Those inspirits who hurt her and made her buisness go down shouldn't have done that. Its not fair on her part. She may be the most decietful witch ever, but no one deserves that. No one deserves to go home and lie to their parents telling them that they bumped into something, when in fact Inspirits hurt her.

 

Onto my friend's reactions:

So, a lot of them hear kpop news from me and there was this one girl who really irritated me jfc.

She calls herself an Inspirit, yet all she knows is Myungsoo. When I talked to her about the situation, she was like "don't fans ship him with... wait who do they ship him with?" /facepalm/ Like, honestly you don't have to be a shipper to know the main ships. Especially when I talk about it when we hang out???? I remember today I also showed her a picture of blonde Sungjong that came out yesterday and she was like, isn't that the guy who held his hand out to you during the concert? /facepalm/ I told her that it was Sunggyu and she doesn't. I just ugh. Like she went to OGS and she calls herself an inspirit and I'm just so frustrated and so are some other people around her.

Omfg, one of my friends was also like "Well, there's 6 others at least!" And I astarted cracking up. Others were just like Oh and its okay. 

 

But I'm still confused on one topic.

Are they still dating? 

Woollim did state that they "drifted apart" and haven't seen each other in a long time, but that does not mean they broke up. When Junhyung and Hara broke up, both entertainment companies said that they drifted apart AND they broke up.

Idek, its really confusing and I just don't want my heart to hurt anymore. 

 

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luvkorean #1
She dated GD? Did not know that!! But I totally agree with you!! Had those thoughts in my head too, accept for the crying part LOL! But at least everyone knows now.
meme1919 #2
I think they broke up and. I don't like her either I feel like she's using him and I don't like that Nam and him almsot had a fight about her cause none of the members like her mostly woohyun... I just want him to ppick somebdy who not her -_- and yeah I cryed to cause he. My bias well all 7 of them are
HaHaHappyVirus #3
I don't know.. I somehow feel that Doyeon doesn't really suit Myungsoo.
It's just so overwhelming.
I honestly think that both are at fault as well.
Doyeon was trying to protect him but couldn't and tweeted about the fans, Myungsoo won't speak up and was being really obvious about the relationship, and Woollim lied but then admitted the truth, adding more fuel to the fire.
I also don't think they'll last very long... But seeing as to how Namu and Myungsoo MIGHT'VE fought, then I guess L really like Doyeon. So yeah, hope you're happy Myungsoo and don't lie to us, fans, ever again.
chookiku_ #4
OMG are they???
I LOVE MYUNGSOO, I will accept his decision :)
khurui #5
Myungsoo is my ultimate and forever bias. I can be mad or sad because of him, but I won't leave his fandom.

I'm trying to come to terms with the fact that he has lied. I know he wanted to tell the fans when the rumors first came out and Woollim prevented that. I'm okay with that. I don't blame him for that.

What he's done wrong on his part is the fact that continued to say that we are his girlfriends and vice versa. That is the real lying, but he had a girlfriend, and even though most of us know there's no chance with him, putting that kind of trust into his words and in the end, finding out that it's all a lie, ing like .

KDY and Myungsoo are both being immature in this situation. DY pretty much used Myungsoo to gain attention and Myungsoo has still not made any statement about this fiasco, nor did he even attempt to stand up for his (ex?)girlfriend when she was being harrassed. I'm sure if he really cared enough, he would've said something even if the company forbid him to do so.

Hopefully, in the future, Myungsoo finds a wonderful girl that he truly cares about. I highly doubt KDY and Myungsoo will last long even if they are still dating. Four months is hardly a long enough time to get serious especially in the idol world, where they can barely ever see each other.
lovelyme23 #6
I want to slap this hard on Myungsoo's face, tbh

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BZ-3xSiCAAIayNf.jpg
shrnxs #7
Actually, Kim Doyeon is an attention seeker. She tried to make rumors with GDragon, Hero Jaejoong and Wooyoung but she didn't get their attention. But then L fell for her trick, but i was glad enough that they already broke up. The couple hadn't seen each other since september. Actually i already know about this months ago. But I don't mind actually if he wanna date someone but why Doyeon? Why that attention seeker, myungsoo? Anyway, don't cry lol. I almost crying to but then i remembered the past rumors. I'm shocked loo. L shouldn't even date a girl like Doyeon. Naeun deserve him better. LOL OKNO.
BeasTOB1a4 #8
I'm not angry at Myungsoo for some reason, but rather at Doyeon. She has made so many statements about herself but I haven't heard Myungsoo say anything. I'm actually really sketchy about what's going on. She said they were together, Myungsoo denied, now Woolim is saying it's true and she is saying it's been true all along? Did I miss something? Like, when did Myungsoo ever say himself that everything was true? I find it just really sketchy in general and maybe I just don't want to believe it--even though Myungsoo isn't my bias doesn't mean I can't still care about the members of Infinite--but I don't know what to believe...
chAOsXxx #9
Lemme quote one of her earlier messages:

"YEAH LIKE YOU HAVE PHONES AND DONT TRY TO BE DEVOTED TO YOUR FANS IF ALL YOUR FAN MESSAGES HAVE A SECOND AGENDA WHERE YOUR EYES ARE REALLY SENDING THEM TO SOMEONE ELSE, ID RATHER IF HE JUST DIDNT DO UGH NOPE IM DONE I CANT IM SO SAD I CAN TOTALLY UNDERSTAND WHY SOME OF THE FAN CAFE ADMINS SHUTDOWN, THEY SAID THEY FEEL SAD AND ANGERED BECAUSE OF THIS AND THEY MIGHT COME BACK ONCE ITS BLOWN OVER BECAUSE THE STILL SUPPORT HIM IN THEIR HEARTS BUT THE L FANS FEEL BETRAYED AND I CAN TOTALLY GET THAT LIKE KIM MYUNGSOO U LYING BAG, IM GETTING RLY SAD LIKE FOUR MONTHS THATS A LOT OF SWEET TWEETS AND KIND VIDEO MESSAGES WORTH UGH"

We're kind of really pissed off.
chAOsXxx #10
My friend (belana) and I ranted to eachother well into the morning.
We've honestly lost respect for him.
is cray. Have you seen her video of her pouring chocolate over everything?

But thats not why we're pissed.
The fact that he USED us, and the fact that KDY goes off and pretty much announces their relationship over a social media site just to garner attention for herself. She's a jealous and honestly, Myungsoo could do better. And all those things that were to her instead of us Inspirits - they have phones for that! Say it in person!
I even heard that he used Sungyeol to cover up his relationship before.
I don't know.
I really don't know.
Belana can't even look at his face without feeling sad - so she stuck paper on his face on her Infinite posters.
Plus, the whole drifting apart thing seems really sketchy.
B1A4bunny #11
I'm crying more about how Myungsoo and Doyeon had to break it up because of the insane fans.
It's not like myungsoo is your boyfriend-
He's not committed to you in any personal level.
He's a musician, a celebirity-
But he's also a human being.
I really don't understand those crazy"fans" who don't support but rather lose their credibility in him just because he loved a girl, who on the most part,is just like us.
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Let's cry together T_T
aznawzmao #12
Lying .
I really think the relief that comes with the truth...yeah.
Man all the idols do that. Like Henry is like "MY WIVES BETTER NOT BE CHEATING ON ME...I BE WATCHING YOU" and I'm like where are you from utah i do not accept this polygamy :3
pandawire #13
I agree (mostly). I get saying those things becaue it's part of his job and this idea of "cheating" on fans is silly. BUT sending tweets about love and leading your fans to believe they are being appreciated when it's for someone else is just downright horrible! It's disrespectful to his fans and to his ex-gf. (I assume ex because it sounds like they haven't spoken in a while. And she was pretty mad when this first went down.)
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