Help me decide? Its important.

So.. i wanna ask an opinion here. You're free to say whatever you want cuz i really want to know what all of you think of this situation.

Earlier, i finished talking with my bestfriend on the phone. She was telling me her problems and somehow we got to mine. I dont exactly feel like its a problem you know? I think its just a regular thing. It was about my dreams. Where mostly i dreamed of killing people, watching people getting killed, watching dead bodies. Others are getting chased, falling off things. There was this 3-set of dreams tho, it was like a while ago where i dreamed it continuosly through day 1-3. It was all different but all well connected. But frankly i dont remember all of them but i do remember the last dream which is on day 3. So i was off in a different world. I mean by different is my life has a different storyline. I mean like i have the same name, and all that stuff. i'm the same person. The only thing that is different is they way i live. I suddenly got my guy-friend as my boyfriend. I went to a different school. My bestfriend was someone else. But the main point is i dont remember who i am in that dream. It was like i was asking to her/him (i cant remember my bf gender. but i know she/he appeared in all of my 3-set dreams.) who am i? who are u? who is he? and she/he was looking at me weirdly asking me if i was sick. Its like i lost my memory out of the blue in that world.

So.......... i told u everything. And here's the thing i wanna ask, should i be worried like my bf said and go get treatment? Tell my gramps everything. I dont think its that important tho.

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uwujongin
#1
Most of my bad dreams resulted of whether being nervous, in a bad mood or eating before going to bed.
Maybe you're in stress? Do you always have dreamt about stuff like that? Or just recently? Like for a couple months?
I don't think you have a problem, it's a dream and as long as you don't have any desire, not in the slightest way not at all, to kill in real life, it's okay.
A dream ist mostly the reflection of the day or of stress/feelings you're having.
On the other hand if it bothers you, well it's about killing after all, and causes you mental stress, you should talk to someone about it.
RosaceousRoseate
#2
I think it may be normal for you to have a weird dream. Last night I dreamt of someone hiding my pants then the the night before I dreamt of myself swoosh away by typhoon. Few days ago, I dreamt of killing Lee Minho then dumped him in the river with my Wolf tee.
CHEOLS
#3
I think it's normal?
because I have dreams like that too.
I've encountered sleep paralysis before though....but not anymore ever since I stopped sleeping at 4 in the morning and started sleeping earlier lol.
you should seek treatment if you're losing sleep and the dreams are affecting your everyday tasks though :)
CoffeewithJinki
#4
I think that if you feel that everything's okay you're fine. I don't think you need 'treatment', but it couldn't hurt to talk to someone. I once started dreaming of death. It got so bad that I didn't sleep some nights. I finally called my grandma and told her. She is a very religious person, so of course I went to her. She told me when I have dreams like that, it usually means that someone close to you or a family member will die. Like a month later my aunt passed away and the dreams stopped. I was freaked out, hell I still am. I'm not saying that someone will die, but it couldn't hurt to talk.
AptonKey #5
. I'm not entirely sure, but I know you should write down anything and everything you can remember even if the memories are vague. And if you start to feel paranoid then consult someone. My PM box is open anytime. :)