{26.} proud ace baby | got any problem?

We've been going through a lot lately, huh? I know, this is really inevitable. I'm not gonna spread hate but I just want to let you all know that I'm still holding on to my ship. For some, we're delusional because of Luhan's ideal type, but again, as a SHIPPER, we all know that we're delusional. I don't know why other shippers would always bring that "IDEAL TYPE" issue. Like what happened about that LUHAN-IU shipper just days ago. She brought that ideal type thing but you know what, you can't stop us from thinking about Luhan's ideal type. Is it such of a big deal for everyone when our ship wants it that way? want to believe something like that? I know that other ships believe in something about their OTPs too. 

Not all fandoms are clean and not all are nice - but I know that not all are bad either. Let's not generalize, please. Let's all be careful of our words too. And I hope some people would also try to read or look for the details where it all began before reacting. And, Let us not be hypocritical. If you don't like the ship - then go to your own fandom, check your own tag, talk to your fellow shippers etc. I don't really see the point why other ships go to other shippers' tags tbh.

And to that person who PM-ed me on Tumblr and told me that I'm being a coward because I was being quiet and all that - SCUSE YOU. I'm mature enough to know when to speak up, when to make a big fuss, when to reply to a certain someone - reasonably - and I'm mature enough to look at every side of the story before responding. 

Yes, I'm a proud ace baby. Fanwars? Psh, that is so overrated. To all ace babies, let's be careful of our words next time too, okay? SMILE :) Let's ship our ship peacefully. Let's be humble and try not to go to other tags. I think it's better for us to just stay inside our own circle rather than talking stuff that will make others hurt as well. I know we're hurt too but you know, being hurt is normal. Things will get better soon <3

xx

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HerLovelyWinterRose #1
Okay so.. yeah.. I wasn't online for the past few weeks so I don't practically know what happened. At first, I thought the acebaby ship was going to end. And I started panicking. But then, I read your post and from what I see on it... Its their own act of being extremely insecure of their own ship. I mean, if they belive in their ship, they should just stick to it and not bash others right? And all those other fandoms should know that being a true fangirl means being mature over your biases and that we should only support them as long as we can. I think that's enough to proove that you ARE a fangirl. Plus, those OTP's... their just a fiction of our imagination. We don't even know if they really do like each other or not. Its just that, we make our own delusions and we think its nice, so we ship it. That's how it is right? No need to fight about it. You've got your own group where you support the same ship and we've got ours. We are AceBabies, we love Seohyun and Luhan together, and that's that. We don't practically care about your other ships with these idols but we stick to our own ship and respect others. Some of us may seem to fight back, but I'm pretty sure that some of us too, is mature enough to deal with this the quieter way.
wunagi #2
Silence is actually the best remedy...and people go to seohan tags because we have agitated their ships, so it's basically asking for trouble. I'm really tired of this and the way a fandom acts affects an idol's reputation/people's first impression a lot. I hope such situations will stop soon, and we should stuck to being a silent shipper. Saves us from butthurt insults & comments.
littlebabyangel #3
That's a wise words from you eonnie and you are totally right. let just spread our love for this fandom, and always calm. and I will always stay in this fandom. for forever. :3
OfSereneNights #4
Not really an ace baby as each and every FA knows but it's just amazing to witness how the likes of you are just getting stronger at these troubled times.

The fandom is terribly...wrecked. like no matter how you guys strive hard to protect the quiet and mature shippers, there are still few stubborn and reckless shippers who cause so much trouble.

And I think that's also the reason why you guys need to stay. Without the likes of you, the fandom must've experienced worse.

And wow. I strongly believe that staying commentless and quiet amidst this matter isn't being coward.

However, I won't be able to patronize/tolerate some ace babies who are really disrespectful. I myself encountered some few rude acebabies in tumblr, twitter, facebook and here in aff.

Good thing every acebaby I'm pretty close with is nice and dorky and mature at the same time.

Stay strong! Spread love for your own fandom.
sjhxlh #5
THIS! omg unnie. I'm seriously glad some of us are like this. Not saying anything doesn't mean we're cowards. It's just that some things are not worth reacting for. I am still mad but I won't say anything anymore. I will probably stay away for awhile. I'm afraid I might be able to say things I'm going to regret if I fail to keep myself calm. :)
suseolay #6
Honestly, i'll stay with this ship even only us left. Because, we knpw what we want and we don't go to other's tags and conversation :)

Even if seohan is not my top 3, i'll always support them and believe in them. To those who think about us being the rude one here, i don't even care anymore. Really. Life must go on wether they like it or not.

Plus, i never sneek in between other's convo cos it's not me. Thank you for the post unnie, i'm proud to be an ace baby too.♡
MorningStar_ #7
let me hug you unnie :)

i know this is one of the hardest times for us babies :)but i know that we can go through it with each other's support! we trust in our ship right?


the reason why i love you guys is because we understand each other, our delusions! i know we're strong!

yes! ace babies jjang!
deersdawn #8
Honestly, people should find better things to do than to bash us for shipping who we want to ship. I don't even understand why people have to act so fussy LOL like they can ship who they want and we ship who we want. They don't have to in. I ship seohan and I'm glad we're mature enough to know not to into other ships like the fandoms of ther ships do to us. I agree with you, we can be the better people and not get mad about it but just stay with ourselves, that's the best way to spazz right? (:
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