Chingu-deul, help me

What should I do? I have a .....friend?boyfriend?..I dont know what to call him..He is now oversea, furthering his study..We are pushing and pulling with each other before, it just like nothing serious..But then when he was there, I think a month ago, he was asking me to wait for him, till he finish his study, for 6 years..I feel so touched, and swear to myself that I will be a good girl and wait for him faithfully.

But then, after that..he was giving no hint at all, no message or a single email...T_T..I saw him online on facebook, but he never greet me...He never comment on any status I make, but he is at his other girl friends...What should I do? Should I wait for him faithfully, or leave my promise?

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lunabie #1 Jun 6, 2013 21:09:55

He has already a girlfriend? I think u must talk with him about ur relationship. So everything will be clear. 6 years is not a short time, what if in this 6 years u find another guy who better than him?
I know its not easy to do, but if at the beginning of ur relationship u already feel uncomfortable, i think its much better to resolve it now rather than bury ur feeling.
Good luck Xijunna :)

UknowMi #2 Jun 6, 2013 18:10:48

This one's hard but then he's ignoring u... Why not privately talk to him if he still ignores u maybe its time to let go of the promise cause why ignore right? Anyways all the best to everything...but if destiny has its own way and saying u two are for each other then go for it...

dream_keeper88 #3 Jun 6, 2013 17:55:13

Were you sending him messages as well or liking his status of fb? Or just waiting for him to make the first move? Talk to him. If he could ignore you this early on, I don't think what you have is that important to him. Idk. It is like you are his reserve or something. Sorry if that sounds too harsh. Just make it clear to him what you feel your relationship is with him, where you stand and how felt being ignored like that. and perhaps, let go of the wsiting part. If after six years and you are still single, maybe you could give him a chance. I mean, both of you are still young :) But don't waste time waiting or reserving yourself to someone who doesn't deserve it.