it's not embarrassing :P everyone was like that at some point right?

Can't sum it up better than that. /shrugs

If they're asking for your profile link then use this:
http://www.asianfanfics.com/profile/view/354096
To link your profile in a comment you just click your username and copy and paste the link in the search bar. If they're asking for a story link then do the same, but click on your story instead of your username. :3

Lol just click on ur username next to AFF Logo... Click copy link location and paste it :) i hope u understand ^^