Even if you could re-live your life 1000 times, if you do not face it with the right attitude, the end result will always be the same.

As you may know, I am a TVB lover (lol). The series Seasons of Love gave me so many feels lol, and this was the best plot in my opinion (but Season ge is still my number one lol). In her first life, she got blamed for her selfishness. In my eyes, it was not selfishness, in that it was not like she always only thought about herself, but it was her way of handling life. If only she had not said that, had not done that, her life would have been completely different. It was not selfish needs that got the better of her, but selfish attitude. In her second life, she did not change. Nobody ever blamed her for what she had done wrong, but for how she coped with it. A simply apology after all the pain and hurt means as little as a smile before a murder. Nobody ever said she was selfish, but she should step out of her own life and see how others are. In her third life, she does everything well, as far as well can go, and though she gets hurts, things do get better. She has no regrets. Maybe nothing really changed at all. Yet for her, it had made all the difference. Because there was no regret on her part. It definitely told me something valuable. Sometimes, selfishness is not that you only think about yourself and what you want. Sometimes, selfishness is the mere fact that you never thought about how to formulate your words better, plan your actions nicer, incorporate other's feelings into your decisions more. One harsh word, one rough action, and your whole life will be different.