Respect

Mizuhara Kiko.

A name that most applers hate, or plainly those who adore and are, sorry to be crude, obsessed with the man named Kwon Jiyong.

She's not the only one, there are some who hate on Sohee, CL, Dara and any other idol, model or anyone who gets related to the man.

As fangirls, it's natural for us to be possessive when it comes to our favorite groups, especially our bias.

We get irritated, annoyed and pissed when they get linked to other idols that we don't approve.

I do admit that I curse and mutter strings of curses to Kiko, Sohee and even Jiyong. Saying words of hate and curses.

I don't really hate them, like seriously. I only say those things when I'm reading fan fictions. As much as I het to admit, I'm delusional.

I immerse myself in the stories that I read, blame the authors.

But I know for a fact that I don't have any right to hate them. They've done nothing bad against me, so why should I? I'm not that immature to despise and mock someone just because they get paired up with my bias.

Yeah, I may get jealous and envious, thinking that I should be the one but that is just wishful thinking.

But reality check, we don't have any right to tell Kwon Jiyong, or any idol who to date. They have their own free will. They can choose who to love and who to date.

They are just human beings like us. They feel pain, sorrow and depression but they still keep doing their best to make us fans happy by performing their best. So why don't we give them happiness to?

Why don't we support them into what makes them happy?

As much as we all love to pry to their privacy. Why don't we just give it back to them?

If G-Dragon is indeed dating or not, may it be Dara or Kiko for example, why don't we just leave him alone, happy and inlove? He is not our belonging. He is not ours.

Yes he performs for us fans but we are not his master nor is he our slave.

I may receive hate for this , nor mockery but all I want to say is ..

We all should just learn how to respect each other.

- Respeto Lang. :)

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MissTangerine #1 Oct 11, 2012 02:44:10

*sigh*

This is exactly why I feel bad writing fics. Some take it seriously, and the plethora of curses aiming at either of them begin.

abigxxx #2 Oct 10, 2012 23:49:52

Eonni. I agree... I curse kiko a lot and other girls that are linked to jiyong but I don't hate them like real hate... It's just a normal reaction from a delusional fan (yes I admit that)... but I dont go on bashing her for no reason(except when fanfiction is involved..that's a whole new scenario)

I think we applers should always remember that these girls are human too.. And that they are not mean or b*tchy like what we read (or maybe they are...we couldn't really tell coz we don't know them) in fan fiction... That's why it's called FAN FICTION.. It's a make believe story....

I know it's hard to accept reality.. But life is unfair.. So what the heck..

Let's respect them as a person.

And on be half of all delusional fans like me... I feel you guys.. So hard to accept that KWON JIYONG WILL NEVER BE OURS. But life goes on.. You never know what will happen.. Keke

But honestly speaking.. I just can't stop cursing Kiko on fanfictions.. And no matter what happens im still hardcore DARAGON.. Lol

And oh... I wanted to share about this OTP that I was so into before..turned out they did date each other but it ended quite bad.. Im talking about Edison Chen and Gillian.Chung.. They kind of remind me of Daragon.. Keke.

Anyways.. I am 100% delusional. So yea. Lol

lazybumhypocrital #3 Oct 10, 2012 12:14:39

Thanks guys. ;)) I just read the article from way back about the issue then got inspired by it.

I pity her too, or anyone for the matter. They are already judged and bounded by hate by thousands of people just for some petty rumor and misunderstanding.

eunhaecupcake #4 Oct 10, 2012 08:37:45

YES! OMG! I love you! I mean I'm not as much of an appler as I used to be because we all know I support DaraHae more now. But it is the guy's life and just because we support GD or any other idol with someone else or even are somewhat possessive about them to ourselves... it's their lives and they deserve happiness. The best thing we can all do as fans is support them. And if the person ends up breaking their heart... then we can attack. :3 jk. But really some people these days don't know how to respect it. if anyone gives you hate for this blog... they should learn to respect what you had to say. Because you made a really good point in this blog alone.

mekachiri #5 Oct 10, 2012 08:24:41

i salute you..
kekeke..
this is sooo true..
minsan naiisip ko
din to AT nagiging
ganito di ako.. BUT
tuwing nagbabasa lang
ako ng FF. kekeke..
peo may times nagagalit
din ako sa ibang celebrity
na pinipair kai Ji(except Dara)..
i cyrse them but just in my MIND..
i cant do it publicly(like blogging
or commenting) coz i know that person
i cursed doesnt even know im exist PLUS
i dont have rights to say bad words to them..
kekeke.. Thanks for posting this blog.
i hope others can appreciate this like i do!
SALUDO AKO SAYO IDOL... kekeke

xara10 #6 Oct 10, 2012 08:06:35

well said my dear ... i don't see a point why some fans need to hate the one they're not approved for their bias ... RESPECT is the only thing we can give to them as fans. thank you for this.