How to Get a Korean Boyfriend

For anyone who wants to have a Korean boyfriend.... :> Tips from the video and my tips. :>

 

Don't take this seriously. It's all for laughs and jokes. XD 

 

How I did it my own way (numbers match with the tips they give): 

1. Learning the language. I tend to show them what I can do this afterwards, when we're acquaintances or friends already. I impress them with my ability to read and say some basic Korean words or phrases.

2. Aegyo. I do it subtly. When I was with my Korean boyfriend back then, I played between hard-to-get and aegyo-filled girl. When we take pictures, yes, my aegyo naturally comes out. Don't overdo it lke those girls in Korean dramas that you just wanna punch. I actually cringe it.

3. Miltang = Hard to get. I always make sure that there is something I wasn't able to make me know about myself so that he'll 'chase' me. XD I don't talk about Kpop too with him. I find it awkward. I like it better if they would ask me or begin the conversation regarding Kpop. My wallpaper was once Heechul and he was like 'I'm jealous of him because I'm your boyfriend.'

4. Korean fashion. First date, I wore shorts. XD The rest, I was in my uniform because he went to my school and we ate outside then he waited until my last class was over. Also, if you wear shorts while jacket, I'll probably hit on you on the head. XD 

5. Well, we don't talk about this. He loves Philippines the way I love Korea, the want to explore the other country is always there. We did talk about his father branching their business in the Philippines. His father was in the materials for construction business, if I remember.

6. Be yourself. Don't look for one. Don't force it or you'll look like a pathetic and desperate girl. In my case, I saw him and I really liked him. At first, I just wanted to be friends, even though my heart was about to explode each time he would pass by and smile at me because he doesn't usually smile. Then boom, we were set up by our trainer at the gym because he knows I like that guy. And the rest is history. :>

 

A Korean guy is not better when dating an American, Filipino or any other nationality they are. They're also people. You can say your ex can be better than your present because of the actions and personality, but not because of nationality. There is no better nationality than the others, just patriotism. So don't ignore your fellow people because he/she is not like your oppa/noona that you like. It's more than just that. It's the heart that will

 

Koreans in my opinion can be quite aggressive. They'll ask you out if they like you and are quite straightforward. I have an ahjusshi friend who told me, 'You know,  you're beautiful, good for my son. But your body is...' He's trying to be nice, but I get what he means that I need to lose weight especially since he wants me to date his son whom I have never met. XD  

 

Anyway, just some tips for those planning and are still are trying to lure some Koreans to be their namja chingus. Don't look desperate. If you like him, do the simple things like talk with him and make him impress, but don't make it look like that you're desperate. It looks pathetic.  If you have more questions or just wanna chit-chat, write on my wall. :>

 

That's all. ^^

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naue523 #1
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kim_seul_young #2
I like this post...

My mom actually told me that Koreans in Korea are different from here in the Phils. She worked there for a while and she found them okay. Very much different from the ones here in the Phils.

But not all Koreans here are bad. There are good ones here as well... we just have to be open-minded to them... I taught Koreans English before and I do agree that the kids are more respectful than teens and older ones.

Our country is considered a multi-cultural country and it's a good chance to be able to experience different cultures.
Lizzzy12 #3
haha cool... and cute.. XD ohwell.. i just wanna learn the korean language... anyone? :D help naman... ung affordable and talagang matututo ako. thanks!!! :D
chocolate #4
@hae_ki I feel you. I'm an ESL teacher for Koreans, too. At first, I was excited kasi I get a chance to meet a lot of Korean friends and students but as time passes by, I learned about their culture and attitude. It's nice to have Korean children students because they are appreciative and sweet. They send you letters and gifts, tell you random stories and so, but Korean teenagers could really be jerks. Some would curse at you and tell you hurtful things just because they don't want to study. And what I hate the most is that they are using our skills para matuto mag-English pero napakababa naman nila magpa-sweldo. We have to work at 2pm to 11pm, or sometimes 5am to 2pm to adjust to their school time tapos yung sweldo natin !@#$%^&*()

Alyssa dear, not because you are a KPOP fan means you have to get a Korean boyfriend, too. You are lucky enough to get one in the past, and meet a lot of Korean friends or so, pero nag-aalala din ako for you. Yun mga nakilala mo, swerte mo kung mabait talaga sila. Malas lang kung pakitang tao lang yun dahil they are staying here to study. Nagtuturo ako ng mga bata up to professionals, and I can say na na-encounter ko na halos lahat ng klaseng ugali na meron sila. I am not saying that they are bad, but you have to keep your guard up always.

Alam ko naiintindihan ni @hae_ki yung ibig ko sabihin na hindi ko mai-explain masyado sayo. Basta, mag-ingat ka lang when it comes to dating and making friends. Okay?
hae_ki #5
just wanna add and this is koreans in general.
a mother korean student of mine (coz i taught ESL for a some months) said that you should be careful about their people coming to the philippines, unless they're here to study. because you don't know their attitude. whether it's fake(you know pakitang tao) or it's how they really are back there. she said, they could actually jerks in korea and you might fall victim into maltreatment especially if he takes you with him back.

two, from my observation also and from what i've heard, they can be aggressive. well everyone has their negative side. but i can't really explain it much.

but yeah, whatever nation someone is - you just have to be careful and not look too desperate.
also don't be blinded by the fact that their nationality is the same as your oppa/noona. bad personality would mean trouble.
but if you already got yourself a bf of said nationality then better learn more of the pros and cons especially if you've got plans in going 'happily ever after' with him.

people have different beliefs and cultures. you might just clash unless you're lucky.
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