I'm afraid
This is my first time writing a blog...actually i don't really know what to say here. I'm not really good in expressing myself with words, funny because i myself is an author...but really i'm not good in writing. I even think of my fanfiction as a failed work.
Well, the reason why i wrote this blog post is because : I feel lonely. I don't know why i but i feel like people around me started to leave me one by one, each day i found one of my friend drifting away from me. Is it because of me? I kept asking myself.
I'm not good at being all kind and sweet with people moreover with someone that i'm not really close with-my definition of close is someone that i've be-friended with for more than 3 years-. Since i joined fandom-i'm a CassiELF, yes...it's really difficult for me to keep both fandom which constantly having a fanwar each day- i started do drift away from my real life, i meant my family and my non-kpop-related-friends. I started to busying myself with fandom stuff, collecting pictures, following their schedule etc. I feel so obsessed with TVXQ and Super Junior until one of my best friend told me-she's not into k-pop- "You're not who you were anymore, you spent most of your time for that boyband. You should get a life and stop doing whatever you're doing now, it's scary to see you like that" the reason why she said that to me is because i started to change-yes, i admit it-. I was a cool headed-easy going-funny-type of girl but now i become so sensitive and too emotional. I don't realize it until she said that to me and when i finally realized it everything had changed. When i finally open my eyes i found no one beside me, i'm alone and i'm scared.
I've been thinking to stop being in fandom and started to glued all the broken friendship that i got in my real life but now i found it too hard to even start a normal conversation without even connecting everything with korean stuff and it makes me depressed. I used to be a talkative one but now i can't even start a conversation-even with my boyfriend-. Then i run to this virtual world of internet, i go to twitter, facebook all of SNS that i got but again i faced the reality of being alone. Those 'friends' changed, they don't even talk with me anymore, i don't even know what and who they're talking about anymore. I'm scared of being alone. Maybe it's only my insecurities but now i feel so lonely. I'm sorry for this depressing blog post. I just don't know where to spill this thought...i'm afraid no one would want to listen to me*laugh bitterly*
Again, i'm sorry for posting this random-blogpost.
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